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Old 07-28-2016, 12:17 PM   #16
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I don't mind at all, if I don't have any plans after our scheduled time.
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Old 07-29-2016, 10:27 AM   #17
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I think that it is a known but unspoken thing, gentleman tend to tip for the time they went over...depends on provider!
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Old 07-30-2016, 08:56 PM   #18
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you don't have to wait till after, just ask during if you can add more donation for more time.

unless she has someone booked or has to really be somewhere she will be fine with it 90% of the time
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Old 07-30-2016, 10:17 PM   #19
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Wrong forum, thought i was in Austin now can't delete. Gist of it was if I go over significantly I offer to pay. Just seems fair.
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Old 07-31-2016, 10:23 PM   #20
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This goes out to any providers who feel like answering, or to anyone who may have done this in the past.

Is there an unspoken rule against scheduling a session for a certain amount of time and then paying for extra time if things go well? I've done it once, but it was with a provider I had already seen before.
For me, if I think there's a chance a session might exceed the agreed amount of time, I have extra funds in my pocket to cover it. I've had sessions run 30 minutes or more over the "agreed upon time". When I mentioned it to the lady and said I was willing to increase the donation, both times the lady said "Don't worry about it, I was having a great time too".

Guys that schedule an hour but PLAN on keeping her busy to 90 minutes or more without additional compensation, are just "Stealing" from the lady as far as I'm concerned, if she doesn't agree to it.
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Old 08-25-2016, 12:54 PM   #21
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Personally, I'm fine with a request to extend a date if I don't have any hard set plans that would be interrupted, and if it is clear that the gent has the appropriate donation for the longer session. (Sometimes a provider is okay with offering OTC time, but that is a gracious act and that time shouldn't be usurped.) This scenario has come up before and when it's clear that there are no games being played and my consent and boundaries are being respected, I don't mind. On the flip side, I've also experienced where someone was being a jerk and under booked for a whole hour on purpose, and it's super awkward when someone is still expecting me to be in a sexy mood and enticing while I'm being scammed for hundreds of dollars.
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Old 08-25-2016, 01:17 PM   #22
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I've booked long sessions with women I had not seen before, they always worked out. The longest were 3 & 2.5 hours. You can relax and take your time, really get to enjoy each other's company.
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Old 08-25-2016, 10:35 PM   #23
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This goes out to any providers who feel like answering, or to anyone who may have done this in the past.

Is there an unspoken rule against scheduling a session for a certain amount of time and then paying for extra time if things go well? I've done it once, but it was with a provider I had already seen before.
Doesn't hurt to ask but do it before the date is over with (aka "time is up").
And do be aware of her rates past the time you and her already confirmed for then be sure to bring the add'l amount.
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I always book for multi-hour or at least 90 minutes. I do a fair amount of research and planning and have rarely been disappointed. I find that ladies are not as worried about running over for longer dates, especially later in the evening when they are less likely to have a later date.

Although I have been wrong. Had one lady rush out at exactly 90 minutes at 9:30 pm because she "had to pick her mother up from church". Yeah, right. Session was pretty mechanical anyway, so I was good with her leaving on time.
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Old 08-26-2016, 08:53 AM   #25
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I really appreciated this thread. My hobbying has primarily been booking multi-hour sessions because the first few hours of my sessions are always M&Gs while I try getting comfortable with the idea of ... ...hobbying. Sometimes, I never do get comfortable.

I think it might be smarter to book a one hour session with a provider, then ask for an extension if there's chemistry. Thanks for the ideas.
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Doesn't hurt to ask but do it before the date is over with (aka "time is up").
And do be aware of her rates past the time you and her already confirmed for then be sure to bring the add'l amount.
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Old 08-28-2016, 07:00 PM   #27
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I've done this many ways.

One way ---- Booked for 2 or 3 hours, assuring her if we didn't get along, I'd leave and she could keep the entire donation.

Another way ----- Told her in advance that I might want to extend my hour visit to 2 hours if we were a good match. Remembering we both have to agree to extend the time.

Sometimes the session is extended by her without any discussion. If I have brought extra, I tip her for the additional time. If I haven't brought extra, I let her know so she can make an informed decision.

Respect and appreciation go a long way in this business. The extra time allows me to treat her as a person.
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Old 08-29-2016, 07:21 PM   #28
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This is not an issue if both parties communicate with each other openly and honestly. It's easy to lose track of time when you're enjoying yourself, but you have to be mindful of it as people often have schedules/obligations to keep. I ALWAYS send a confirmation email the day before. Included is a statement mentioning if we need more time it will be $X for X amount of time. If I know I will not have extra time, I will omit my extension rates. Other than that, we share the agreed upon time together.

Also, before we even meet I might suggest a certain amount of time based on our plans/fantasies. For example, say you wanted a shower, massage, wine, conversation and for me to model my stiletto collection, I would suggest perhaps 2H. That would allow us to get to everything and never feel rushed.
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