it will help a lot .. but then maybe switch up the type of lady you go for
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Originally Posted by 2ticks
I'm pretty sure I've lost it... And because this is not something I'm going to chat up with family friends or the SO, you bastards (and lovely ladies) are my only hope for advice. I'm on a losing streak. It's been 5-6 months of pretty terrible adventures - and let me say up front - the providers were not the problem. It's me.
I travel a ton for business and like to whistle while I work. But my whistle is out of tune. I'm finding it less fun and more mechanical. I'm not connecting with anyone I see (which was always the best part) and having an impossible time making it to completion - half the time I can't get a damn condom on because I'm limp by the time we get it unwrapped. If I'm lucky enough to be with a truly gifted provider who sneaks it on mid bj, I usually noodle out after a few minutes of being wrapped up. It's like condoms have become my kryptonite!
I'm not advocating for BB - I'm just concerned that I'm losing it. I'm getting to the point where I'm in my head from the moment a session starts. I'm freaking myself out. And then the provider (bless them all) feels bad and starts working overtime with her mouth... And while I certainly appreciate a great bbbj, it becomes more of a chore just to try to cum. The experience is getting lost in the mad dash to blow a load.
At first I started looking for freakier options - which I have to say worked for a while. But I don't want a tounge in my ass every time I want to play - not to mention that seriously limits your options for companionship! And honestly I've paid too many up charges for trips to Greece that never happened. I freak myself limp and end up with a $$$$$ handjob. WTG stud.
I'm finding that my only hope is a full speed bng or multi hour sessions with a lot of talking - yep I said that. Sometimes if we can spend time flirting in public, teasing and building to it like a true gfe, nature takes back over. But it's incredibly hard to find that connection (and expensive).
So we are clear, this is not just a blue pill issue. I'm more than capable of knocking out a quickie. But I've lost the adventure. I seriously think my hobby days are numbered. Sorry to whine. Just ready to give up.
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