Lube - Jelly, Gel or Liquid

[Guest072918]

I have found the premium lubes are worth their expense because they take much less and last much longer. I personally have found Wicked Aqua to be very long lasting, only takes a few drops, is tasteless, and works well with female condoms as well as anal. Jo products (can get unflavored) are also good.

For body to body contact, you can't beat coconut or grapeseed oil. I always get the food quality so that if massage or titfucking develops into oral play, everything is good. Lube can be too slippery if you are wanting good body to body friction.

For the liquid vs gel vs jelly question, the premium lubes primarily come in liquid. For a reason. Use what the professionals use.

[gimme_that]

I usually just try to see ladies who get wet naturally with interaction so I don't need to reach for lube.......besides if she needs lube shes probably not enthused.......

But when I do want to put ketchup on a nice veal cutlet like vagina......I like astroglide.

Whatever you use......just make sure the package is brand new when you use it on me . . . . . or in a small service bottle. One time I had a lady pull out her big tube of lube and she flipped the top and there was different colors of public hair caught on the cap......please don't double dip the chip lol.

[ElisabethWhispers]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

...besides if she needs lube shes probably not enthused...

Actually, that isn't true or perhaps I should write, I strongly disagree. Plenty of ladies can, and do, get excited and the body doesn't naturally lubricate itself.

For me, it's an age thing. Certainly a mechanical nuisance. For others, it could be just how their body works for them. In my youth, until my mid-30's, then yes ... getting very lubricated was more of a natural process (and if you see only younger females, then I do understand where you're coming from).

I just hope that a lot of men reading this will understand that as a female gets older, the lubrication process slows down. After menopause, it just stops. It's nothing personal if we don't get dripping wet.

Plus, using condoms during sex is very "drying" for lack of a better way to put it. And that applies to ladies of all ages.

And don't get me started on men who wish to use their fingers (with no lube or spittle) and just start poking someone and they're dry.

Too much? Well ... just wanted to add a few more thoughts!

Happy Thursday! And yes, I'm working today and have a LOT of lube handy, for whatever we (the collective we) wish to do together.

Elisabeth

[ElisabethWhispers]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

...One time I had a lady pull out her big tube of lube and she flipped the top and there was different colors of public hair caught on the cap......please don't double dip the chip lol.

I cannot get that image out of my head after reading this!

[ElisabethWhispers]

Originally Posted by Woodford

I have found the premium lubes are worth their expense because they take much less and last much longer. I personally have found Wicked Aqua to be very long lasting, only takes a few drops, is tasteless, and works well with female condoms as well as anal.

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For the liquid vs gel vs jelly question, the premium lubes primarily come in liquid. For a reason. Use what the professionals use.

I'm going to check out Wicked Aqua. I've never heard of it before. Thanks for the suggestion!

[gimme_that]

We'll for me. Good vagina is like a good steak. I really don't want to add many if any additives to it much. I like to sometimes do oral before after and during sex. Sometimes the taste and texture of lube isn't the best.

Also......not many ladies have lube sorta warm already. I don't wanna feel cold and suddenly be a wet noodle while we are attempting to moisten our private area's. I'd use the hotel coffee pot myself. Lol and please don't just run any type of KY warming gel or liquid on anyone without asking. That stuff burns.

I try to get ladies wet before sex in other ways. If some body exploration, tongue work, massage, and four play won't do it.........

[ElisabethWhispers]

All very good points and thanks for being understanding about what I wrote above.

You know, cold lube IS unpleasant at times.

Also ... good point about the warming lube. I will NOT let that near my body, anywhere. Warming lube is God awful. I'm not sure why people use it but I've read where some folks find it stimulating.

The few times that a client has brought some over, I've declined having it anywhere near my sensitive areas.

Well, that's it for me with this topic! Sure has been a good one!

And for me, it's appreciated. LOVE it when I learn a few things.

EW

[Fancylady]

All 3....Better than nothing.