I only hobby on the weekends, by choice and yes the hobby sene is geared for weekday 9-5 but I have no trouble getting a date the nights I want to ply, I also live south so I guess your either to picky and have to many obstacles that you set forth that is making your hobby to much work. I'm about as lazy as a hobbyiest can be and I bust a nut when I want, and I'm picky too, so I gues you just haven't figured it out yet.
There is plenty of pussy out there, your just not using the right gear to catch it.
Maybe try trolling the general population and see how that goes!
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