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Originally Posted by Nodramaguy
Is it just me, or is there something enchanting about that girl next door? You know, the one with the curves, who isn't shy about being who she is. The one who you can't help but watch as she crosses the room, confident and mysterious at the same time. The one who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to let you know what it is. She may not be considered a model in some circles, but she is real, and she is passionate, and she knows that there is but one life we are offered, and that should not be wasted on the ordinary...and she will never be ashamed of taking a full drink of that life's cup. Where is this woman, I ask, so that I might experience her fully?
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Of course that's enchanting to us. And we partake in the hobby thinking that it will satisfy our urges, but except in some pretty rare cases, doesn't meet the urges that you describe. Some will try the Sugar Baby route, thinking that will do it. But that's either usually filled with too much drama, or is too sterile, or ends up being way more expensive than the hobby ever would. Or, once you bed that girl next door, the allure is all gone. A story....
Prior to my hobby life, I knew a woman in civilian life that I lusted after. We were part of a lot of the same circles, so we saw each other multiple times a week. She was the prototypical "girl next door," in my estimation. Of course, I was married and still am, and she was always in some sort of committed relationship, so we were never anything more than friends. Fast forward 3 years, and while scanning the profiles in Seeking Arrangements one day, I found her. It was my very own J. Geils "Centerfold" moment. Nervously I messaged her, letting her know I knew her, and that if she had interest in seeing someone she knew in RL, I would reveal my identity. I nervously awaited her reply. She did, and I did. We chatted and flirted for awhile, and even made arrangements to meet, but never did. But it was clear, that while she loved sex, the money was the only piece that she was really interested in, and she lost most of the enchantment for me.
I'm not saying that would be true in your case. I'm just saying that often we want most what we cannot have.....
Is it just me?
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