Roaring, I'm not sure how answering my reply helped the OP in any way shape or form? But I guess you kept it on topic because he was ranting and you ranted too.
Sure there are providers who will ask for more screening then you care to give. There are also others who don't. Plenty of people don't screen every day, that's why we get alerts on the same people over and over.
The OP can put an ISO in the men's forum if that is his issue.
Just remember..
For every lady who over screens we hear a horror story of a lady who doesn't screen at all and the man gets robbed and etc. it's unfortunate that you have to go through that risk, but we do screen so we limit our chances of having that happen to us.