Why do providers have to be the one to buy condoms?

[Keyhole Arc Blow]

Originally Posted by Annie Calhoun

Ok, you sound like my type of guy. Thanks for being respectful to and considerate of your friendly local provider

I used to be even more considerate than that. When I would see ladies that I knew only did CBJ(sometimes there aren't any BBBJ ladies in EP) I would take flavored condoms with me. I've tasted regular condoms, which taste aweful in my opinion, I think most ladies are gagging from the taste instead of DT lol.

I'd take a few flavors, chocolate was always popular with the ladies and banana was always my favorite because I could make euphemisms/innuendos about bananas when I brought out the rubbers.

I'd even let the ladies keep the 2 or 3 condoms I had left over, so they could use for their next appointments.

It also helped because if they didn't recognize me right away I could just say I was the flavored condom guy and they'd instantly remember.

[Seductiveaddiction]

I feel like clients should provide there own supplies. They know what feels good to them and what should fit properly. A lot of men I know are always prepared even when they are not paying for it. I ask my clients to bring their own supplies or come prepared when majority of them were going to anyway, but it's rare that I engage in activity where one is needed (im predominantly a body rub provider ) so don't see the need to get them. And I don't want an undercover cop snooping around and I rather have an undercover bring his own, obviously he was prepared for something and not me haha.

[Zhivago52]

My profile on another site states what brand / type / size works best for me. Most ladies already have it, or are happy to accommodate. I carry my own as a backup and they are new. Many brands have an expiration date; who you gonna trust?

[tia travels]

Originally Posted by Seductiveaddiction

.... And I don't want an undercover cop snooping around and I rather have an undercover bring his own, obviously he was prepared for something and not me haha.

You obviously probably never saw "To Catch A Predator" with Chris Hansen.

What they would do is ask the predator to bring something to drink and condoms for example. If they showed up with what they asked for--apparently, it was intent or something.

So by you asking the undercover to bring his own, I don't know if that would help you in any particular way. You're obviously stating then, that the guy should bring condoms. If they aren't for having sex, then why should he bring them?

Now...if you're caught by a cop with a few condoms in your purse already, I would assume you can just say you're a very horny girl and you "meet guys off Christian Mingle" (or the like) and "what's wrong with having condoms in my purse? Just because I have condoms already on me, doesn't mean I was intending to use them with this gent (or you...Mr. Undercover Cop.) Having condoms does not make me a prostitute. If I happen to have a bag full of surgical instruments on me...does that make me a doctor?"

LOL

Obviously, I don't know if any of that would work, but I would think specifically stating what you want the gent to bring...ie...donation or supplies over the phone, email, or asking if he brought them in person might be almost as bad or the same as talking about the donation in the room with the gent.

I just reread your quote above...if you never ask the Undercover to bring them and he does automatically on his own....then yeah...I would agree that "he" was prepared for something. But if you ask him to bring supplies...be careful. If he's already in your room and going to arrest you, he's going to be snooping around anyway.

[tia travels]

[FoxyNC]

Originally Posted by tia travels

If you let guys be the ones to bring the condoms,
and they knew they had the choice to do so,
then alot of them probably wouldn't bring one
or claim they forgot to....just to be able to BB.


You say you would never ask a guy to buy your bra,
but you're providing a service. And having supplies
is part of that service.


Just like when you go to get a massage (professional
or hobby related)...they aren't going to ask you to
bring your own towel, oils, lotions and table. If you
go to a nail salon, they provide the colors and callous
remover and hand lotion, etc. They don't ask you to
bring your own. If you go to a restaurant, they
don't ask you to bring your own food, plates, or utensils.
So it only stands to reason, that if you prefer protection,
you should provide it.


If this subject really was in etiquette books,
this would not the kind of conversation (see pic) to
have with your gentleman caller...
(boyfriend maybe, but not hobbyist.)



I'm not saying you have to buy 25 different sizes, but
do your best to get a few different kinds.
If they "still" don't fit, well you made a genuine
effort and if the gent knows he's a hard-to-fit guy
for your basic condoms you can buy most places
easily---and if he doesn't like cramming his "johnson"
in a Magnum XL for example, THEN ...maybe he
can bring his own.


But to say you think all men should provide something
that most people would provide normally as part of their
service, is kind of (let's just say)
...not the swiftest

^^^^ THIS




To all the butthurt hookers... If you think that post was anything less than PURE GOLD.....



I'm not being "judgey" ..... I'm being HONEST.

[Annie Calhoun]

Originally Posted by Keyhole Arc Blow

I used to be even more considerate than that. When I would see ladies that I knew only did CBJ(sometimes there aren't any BBBJ ladies in EP) I would take flavored condoms with me. I've tasted regular condoms, which taste aweful in my opinion, I think most ladies are gagging from the taste instead of DT lol.

Awwww...that's the sweetest thing I've heard on ECCIE in quite some time, LOL.

Originally Posted by Keyhole Arc Blow

...and banana was always my favorite because I could make euphemisms/innuendos about bananas when I brought out the rubbers.

You may want look into scheduling a visit with my friend Lana B. Anana, then

Originally Posted by Keyhole Arc Blow

I'd even let the ladies keep the 2 or 3 condoms I had left over, so they could use for their next appointments.

Waste not, want not, right?

Originally Posted by Keyhole Arc Blow

It also helped because if they didn't recognize me right away I could just say I was the flavored condom guy and they'd instantly remember.

Gentle reminders are always helpful. I love when clients email me and include some random or funny little factoid so I immediately know who they are.

[Annie Calhoun]

Originally Posted by tia travels

Now...if you're caught by a cop with a few condoms in your purse already, I would assume you can just say you're a very horny girl and you "meet guys off Christian Mingle" (or the like) and "what's wrong with having condoms in my purse? Just because I have condoms already on me, doesn't mean I was intending to use them with this gent (or you...Mr. Undercover Cop.) Having condoms does not make me a prostitute. If I happen to have a bag full of surgical instruments on me...does that make me a doctor?"

Except there's this:Sex Workers at Risk: Condoms as Evidence of Prostitution in Four US Cities

[D.G.]

Lets see three dollar box of condoms or 9months of stomach wreckage and 18years supporting a bastard child ? Yes that is definitly a toss up choice .