Emotional Connection and The Best Sex!

[SeekingTruth]

I have often wondered why some partners were so special to me. I believe it's because they appreciated me as a person, not just as a sex object. Women are human beings and deserve respect and respectful partners. I got into this business out of financial need. Yet, somehow, I regret that I have exploited myself this way. It will haunt me for the rest of my life. It is not conducive to a healthy self esteem. It is a way for men to exploit women that are vulnerable.

I am starting a pro activitst group and if you are interested in building your self esteem, please let me know. Many of us are victims of domestic violence, learned helplessness, and rape.

If you need help, let me know. I am an advocate for female empowerment. I am agianst female exploitation.

[Old-T]

Part of the difficulty is that this corner of the world is very far from homogeneous. You have many different types of people, and they are not all looking for the same things--men or women. Personally, I completely agree with you that having an emotional connection makes everything else better, though you will find there are people on here who vehemently disagree and claim they are here precisely to have sex unencumbered by any emotions.

I applaud your interest in helping ladies build their self-esteem, there are many in this business who would benefit greatly from that.

[anita]

Great chemistry makes passionate lovers. No chemistry, the sex is still good... But you know, it's just that: Sex. It is missing some sparks. Emotional connection is possible if we meet multiple times, or for extended period of time. Let's not get too carried away.

[Seeskylar]

I do believe the best sex is when you and the other person have that connection like you have known each for years. But also the emotional connection could not be good if the feelings get to attached.

Believe me I have learned to not get to close with clients now due to the best sex I have ever had was with a client.
Lesson learned

[Harley Diablo]

It is better if you have a connection. I have some provider friends that I saw almost weekly for a year and until they got out of the hobby. We are still friends. You just have to understand it is friends with benefits but the sex gets better as you know each other and want to please and enjoy the connection.
Providers are people just like everyone and have lives outside the hobby. Always nice to know the person you are seeing and having the ultimate sex with. We still talk on occasion even though we do not meet for sex.

[ElAngelo]

A connection with your partner indeed gives the best sex for me too