Why knock me for not doing bbbj

[Jon Bon]

Just a friendly rebuttal, JMC.

I have not heard any guy say, my girlfriend makes me wear a cover when she gives me head. Also, the majority of guys have watched porn and most likely want to re-enact them (fantasies). So yes, I assume that she gave her BFs BBBJs.

You had enough GFs that at least one of them gave you a BBBJ. Did any of them give you CBJs? I really hope not. In regards to a provider not taking the bra off and get away with it, I can think of one provider that did that, Lolli. Clients didn't care if her bra was on or off. She gave great BBBJs and service.

What I have read is that GFE includes DFK and BBBJ, which I agree. As to the crazy part, leave that to the real girlfriends. That is why hobbyists meet providers, have the providers leave after the hour or so. No drama

To the OP do what is comfortable for you in your temporary chosen profession.

Similarly to working out, if you are not getting the results you desire, in a timely manner, something has to change.

Good Luck

Originally Posted by JustMeCLTXGG

agree with the modifying rates to reflect services/menu.

as for the above, you're assuming she even gave bf's bj's.

it keeps coming up. I wonder just how many people each person has dated. I've dated enough to know just because you have a gf doesn't mean you're getting bj's even when you've progressed to doing the deed. heck, one girl wouldn't even take her bra off. didn't care for that but she was a gf. you think a girl here would get away with that?

there is no generic this is how a gf acts and what they do other than they want to be with the bf and make him feel like he is the center of their attention. that and kissing pretty much. oh, and the CRAZY. still haven't seen anyone say they want the crazy included with their sessions. (I still love that graph SpiceItUp! and dammit! soo forgot to show my buddies that. ha, ha)

[SpiceItUp]

Originally Posted by JustMeCLTXGG

(I still love that graph SpiceItUp! and dammit! soo forgot to show my buddies that. ha, ha)

It's from this classic Youtube viral video. I've seen it probably 10 times and it still makes me laugh

[JustMeCLTXGG]

Originally Posted by Jon Bon

.............................. .................I have not heard any guy say, my girlfriend makes me wear a cover when she gives me head.......................... .......................You had enough GFs that at least one of them gave you a BBBJ. Did any of them give you CBJs? I really hope not. In regards to a provider not taking the bra off and get away with it, I can think of one provider that did that, Lolli. Clients didn't care if her bra was on or off. She gave great BBBJs and service....................... .............................. .......................

yes. you are correct. it was either none of BBBJ. the point was some don't at all. isn't a CBJ better than the none option for guys that gotta have a BJ? again, my point being a GFE could be none technically. (said it earlier in the thread. this isn't specific to your post alone)

as for the bra thing, that I'd dislike worse myself. did she at least pop 'em out the top of the bra? I've seen a girl at a SC do that before. what I speak of, not even that happened. hope that one provider doesn't still do that!

Originally Posted by Jon Bon

.............................. .............................. ...........As to the crazy part, leave that to the real girlfriends. That is why hobbyists meet providers, have the providers leave after the hour or so. No drama......................... .............................. ....................

see this part right here? I'd have to think on it to say it best but either side could slant this. the guys or the girls here. it's like as guys we want to choose what the GFE is which actually takes away from a truly authentic experience. basically saying we want a fake synthetic experience. now doesn't that actually make it not an experience of an actual girlfriend? I know what I'm thinking. just need a better articulation of it.

also, when it comes to the YMMV factor. I don't see how a guy could have a GFE if him and the girl don't hit it off regardless of who didn't care for who. nor do I see how the girl could provide a GFE session in such a scenario even if she claims she's GFE. we all should know not everyone gets along or hits it off. sometimes only determined in person.

Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

It's from this classic Youtube viral video. I've seen it probably 10 times and it still makes me laugh

<-----------------------see SpiceItUp's post - video removed for space reasons----------------------------->]

yup, yup! classic video! it's awesome. just gotta remember to show the buddies! damn beer and BBQ and things get forgotten.

[Jon Bon]

@ JMC, I think you are mixing GFE and IOP (Illusion of Passion).

GFE is, IMO, a checklist of things done, usually DFK and BBBJ. IOP is the provider giving the "feeling" or "authentic good experience" of a GF. Making you feel like you are the man or you two can "date" in the RW.

Now, for the crazy part of a GF. There are providers that are Dominatrix for that part. To each his own.

[JustMeCLTXGG]

nah, not confusing it. to me to have an authentic GFE (girlfriend experience) it requires IOP. as you said, "authentic good experience of a GF"

said something similar in my previous post in this thread

Originally Posted by JustMeCLTXGG

.............................. ...................to me GFE is more about the passion and kissing (DFK. haven't experienced a gf NOT doing that. LFK is just a damn tease) and me thinking she wants to spend time with me. the IOP. .............................. .............................. .............................

otherwise what the heck kinda girlfriend is that? without IOP it's more like BDE (blow up doll) or DFE (dead fish). ha, ha.

ok, ok it can still be good. in those cases it's just what it is, a PE/CE/HE/EE. (provider/courtesan/harlot/escort - take your pick)

my opinion. as for Dom, not the same kinda crazy. ha, ha.

[txman123]

Originally Posted by SweetDulce

I only recently started offering bjs. Not even cbj was on my menu. In those 5 months only 1 eccie person told me they didn't know.
Op. I would always mention no bjs in my pm when giving other information. Just to make sure he knew. Maybe th as the would help.

SweetD, if you ever feel the need to practice your bj technique, let me know. I'm more than willing to help you perfect it. I'm a big believer in lots of reps to build muscle memory. I know where Houston is.

Exactly right as far as making sure no bbbj expectation when cbj is reality. Damn sure not a good way to get a guy to repeat.

[SweetDulce]

Originally Posted by txman123

SweetD, if you ever feel the need to practice your bj technique, let me know. I'm more than willing to help you perfect it. I'm a big believer in lots of reps to build muscle memory. I know where Houston is..

hmm, practice makes progress!!!!

[cr76]

This reminds me of a while back. One provider i met in BP IN THE GALLERIA. I asked her if she was thinking about joining eccie, but she said wasn't sure cause all "the guys want bare." Another provider I spoke to and asked if she was a Gfe and she responded "well what do you mean?? GFE means different things to different people" it's your job and your life. I prefer bbbj , but if I have a good connection with a girl, or she's what I really want , then cbj isn't a big deal, but that's just me