"Sorry Hun, something came up and that day doesn't work for me any more. How about (your next foreseeable/available time)?"
You could go poking for drama, but why? She doesn't need to know about your hobby frequency any more than you need to know about hers, really. Keeping it short and sweet and no more specific than you have to be has worked the best in almost every situation, in my experience. I'm not saying that the advice to tell her you've made other plans or why to see if she is professional is wrong, it's just not the way I would go. I'm pretty sure most girls won't care, but you don't need to ask them to either. Know what I mean?
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