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Originally Posted by nctotx
Ok, i'm a first timer here. I can't seem to hit the send button to these newbie friendly providers. You remember your first time? I would love to hear some stories.
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Keep in mind as you look through the "providers ads" sections that what you're seeing are advertisements in the strictest sense of the term. Providers are operating a business, and just like any business, sometimes they make claims and promises that are just not kept. That's what I've found out about the hobby--and I began figuring that out with my first time.
My first time provider was okay--in fact she was great--but it was too much of a business transaction. The unfeel of it along with my nervousness rendered a pretty wasted rendezvous; I was unable to perform.
After a couple of other tries, I found a handful of providers that -- while businesswomen -- also brought a lot of passion to the experience. And of course I tipped them very well and paid repeat visits to them. Of course, we males like variety. It's really hit or miss with a new one--whether they'll be passionate about it, or whether they'll be like "pay me, okay roll around on top of me and cum fast!"
Of course every ad on here and similar hobby websites all promise "the true GFE" and all that. Just keep in my that they are ads (and I've discovered that older providers are all around better at what they do and especially at not making it seem like a business transaction even though it is. Most of the 20 somethings want their fee and for you to finish very fast!).