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Muscleup · 01-24-2015, 12:01 AM

So ladies, do you like getting prescreen request or do you see it as a waste of time? Should a client just wait until he is ready for a specific provider and time then send date request? Which is preferred? I ask this due to some of the responses to the prescreen request. I don't want to upset the ladies by not responding with a specific target date. I've stopped prescreen request for the moment and would love for anyone to impart some insight, please. ;-)

melannie_star · 01-24-2015, 07:28 AM

I appreciate pre-screen request. A Pre-screen is a formal way to let me know that you have taken interest in me. It gives me a chance to look at your profile and read more about you.. That is when I can make a decision if I think we will be good company for each other or not.

If the pre-screen never turns into a pre-book then I did not do a good enough job of keeping your interest...lol.

To answer your question..yes, I like pre-screen, but that is just me

Prolongus · 01-24-2015, 07:38 AM

If you make the appointment far enough in advance (and I'm thinking two days here) it should be enough time for her to screen you. Same day or just a couple hours beforehand, that's rushing it for a first time meet with the Providers...my 2¢...

Laura Lynn · 01-24-2015, 08:19 AM

I like to pre-screen. It allows time to get the necessary "paperwork" out of the way.

It also can allow us a chance to get to know each other and maybe flirt a little to build up the excitement before our date. The more comfortable we are with each other, the more we'll both enjoy our time together. Trust me.

Muscleup · 01-24-2015, 02:02 PM

Thank you guys very much for the input.

I'll prescreen but not quite be so "Hobby ADD". I'll double the adderall dose. ;-)

Grace Preston · 01-24-2015, 05:45 PM

To me... the point of the pre-screen is for gents who know they wish to see a lady, but sometimes their schedule is hard to work with... so they get "pre-cleared"... enabling them to message the lady and say "Hey, I have time today between _ and _... can you see me?"

At least... that's how the gents I've seen have worked with the pre-screening.

flanker1017 · 01-24-2015, 10:33 PM

When I see a post or ad that makes me interested in a lady, will try to PM back and forth for a little while to see if I can discover a little about their personality. I the lady only wants to know the day, time and length of session, then I generally drop the pursuit. If they are willing to get to know me a little bit, I will ask them if it is OK if I send them my refs. to see if they think we would be a good fit.

Laura Lynn was one of the first providers I saw, when I first joined the hobby, and she was perfect with someone like me, who was not as experienced as many of you gentlemen.

So, I usually sent the refs. for screening pretty early in the communication with a lady, after I have decided to try to meet them.

Kendall4U · 01-25-2015, 08:25 AM

I always prefer a gent to pre-screen. I am not available 24/7 and typically do not see anyone last minute. There are days that I may can do same day, but if he hasn't been screened then that meeting is shot. Especially pending on who he uses as a reference. I love it when you guys can plan ahead a little.

redman1501 · 01-25-2015, 08:37 AM

Usually when I first PM someone it's to get the pre-screen out of the way and to find out if the lady has a set bed time or not. My schedule is pretty random and annoying, but I don't want to bother anyone by texting them too late if I'm out and in the mood for adventure and it's already past their bed time. But if I find a window of opportunity to hang out while they're bright eyed and bushy tailed then I'm already screened!

Snow Lioness · 01-25-2015, 03:19 PM

I prefer to pre-screen too. Sometimes it takes a bit for the references to get back. So if I had the clients pre-screened and saved to my hobby phone. I know they are legit.

CaesarC · 01-26-2015, 03:22 PM

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Originally Posted by GracePreston

To me... the point of the pre-screen is for gents who know they wish to see a lady, but sometimes their schedule is hard to work with... so they get "pre-cleared"... enabling them to message the lady and say "Hey, I have time today between _ and _... can you see me?"

At least... that's how the gents I've seen have worked with the pre-screening.

This is exactly my situation. I rarely know with more than a couple/few hours notice when I'll be able to meet up with a lady. Pre-screening is a huge thing for me.