Dating/Cheating Sites?

[Gollum]

Has anyone had any luck hooking up on sites like OKC, Tinder, nostringsattached.com, etc? I tried Asley Madison a long time ago, but it was a complete waste of time and money. Any recommendations or places to avoid? Thanks!

[AshleighRicci]

For me IRL I find guys on dating sites aren't serious about long term relationships, so it's easy to get into a casual relationship, but I don't like guys propositioning me right up front. I like to feel that it's a normal date with the full spectrum of potential. I met a really nice guy on Tinder, though many are jerks, just outright obnoxious. I used to use "arrangement" websites and didn't like SeekingArrangement. SugarDaddyforme worked better, assuming it's still around. This was a stopover for me on the way to becoming a full pro, because I got frustrated with those sites. If you respect the girls on there, don't waste their time or emotionally manipulate them into unprotected sex etc, you will get some good ROI for helping them w/bills etc. Many girls like me are on there to feel more discreet than being full blown pros and having advertisements etc out on the internet that would serve as proof they were real pros versus dabblers.

[Arverni]

Ashleigh pegged it. There's a lot of college girls that want more money than they get from their parents and you'll find them up there. They don't want to think of themselves as "pro" and they're not the type to just "do it" with anyone. A lot of them want to check you out first to see if they can possibly stomach sleeping with you and some have high standards.

And dead on about protected sex. Don't take advantage of the girls and pay them like you would an escort. A lot of guys use those sites to find gals who don't know what they're worth and try to negotiate "rock bottom" rates ... then they have the nerve to ask for bareback. Don't be one of those guys. Genuinely help the girl out - be nice (not creepy) - keep your word - be safe - pay well - you'll get great ROI.

It takes some "mining" though to find the right girls. There's a lot of weird ones on those sites too.