Ok what does everyone else say about PSE

[Luke Skywalker]

WHat is this considered? XLFGE?

[Sleepy363]

Originally Posted by Rylee_raye

I usually agree with that GFE as well but I had a lot if people say that with GFE they are looking for kissin and intimate experience more them bbbj. And I have some says they want bbbj that's why I use lite GFE because I am a Covered provider. I have been know to feed off the energy of my date if they want Nasty sloppy fuck feast I'm just as great at that as I am at an immensely intimate and passionate session. I think some times hobbyst do put us in a category an get aught up on acronyms and what they think girl will n won't do based on opinion. Thats why I love those review so you can read the experience not the activities. But to each there own. I guess ....... thanks for feed back everyone. Still no solid answer but I do appreciate everyone's opinions

If you don't offer BBBJ, then it's neither PSE or GFE. Both of those have BBBJ as pretty much a standard item offered. PSE is a much wilder/slutty fuck. GFE is more sensual. BBFS is not part of the definition of either of them. Some guys may try to say that to see if a provider will offer it, but it's never been the case that pse = bbfs.

CBJ's should be outlawed though I may write to my congressman to see if he can get a bill started for that.

[Chung Tran]

Originally Posted by Sleepy363

CBJ's should be outlawed though I may write to my congressman to see if he can get a bill started for that.

I have a feeling that if this guy happens to be your Congressman, he would be happy to sponsor such a Bill...

http://dcxposed.com/2012/08/21/minne...-year-old-boy/

[eccienewbie]

PSE is a world apart. It is incapable of being easily defined, but it most definitely does NOT require that all activities be uncovered. In other words (let's just go ahead and acknowledge that big ol' elephant in the corner of the room), it does NOT require bbfs.

From the hobbyist's pespective, you'll know you've been on the receiving end of a PSE once you've experienced it and not until. It's like trying to define obscenity -- you couldn't do it if you tried. Not satisfactorily, anyway. But you'll danged sure know it when you see it/experience it. Other than that, all you can do is discuss the activities that the hobbyist desires and that the provider may (or may not) be willing to offer. That's the closest you'll ever get to figuring out beforehand whether the session is going to be PSE or something else. But even that can lead to difficulties, as few providers will discuss in candid terms what they will or will not do prior to a session other than what may be listed in their profiles. And that's smart on their part. Work up trust with a provider after a couple visits, and then you'll be able to discuss such things and hopefully fashion your ultimate session. Or you can just do what I do and let things flow naturally. That's enough if the connection is strong.

One other little note: those of you who think you really, really, REALLY want a PSE may find out that you don't once you've experienced it. It's not for everybody. The real thing will leave some of you traumatized. No, I'm not kidding. As for me (not that anybody asked), it's just an itch that I like to have scratched every once in a while. I much prefer an elite GFE 9 times out of 10. And that will undoubtedly bring us to the question of "what constitutes an 'elite' GFE?", and that's where I bow out of the conversation, lol. Some of the best things in life are better left undefined, and an elite GFE is one of those things. But you CAN find examples of elite GFE providers on my review list. ijs

[Jackbroker]

I don't care about PSE. The litany of acronyms is not as important as a welcoming attitude, a clean, safe and comfortable location and a little IOP. A kind and happy provider who can suspend reality for an hour and make me think she's happy to be naked with me is valuable indeed. Well, maybe I lied a little about the acronyms-cbj is just a nonstarter for me. Just saying.

[L.A.]

In my opinion the main levels are limited GFE with includes CBJ and LFK. Then you have GFE which is BBBJ and DFK. Then there is PSE that includes bbbj and dfk plus some other wilder activities like cof cot, swallowing, dirty talk, maybe greek but that should be spelled out.
That's how I see it and what I would expect from somebody who advertises with those terms.

On a side note...seems putting a rubber in your mouth with a cbj would be more nasty than a bbbj...but I'm no expert. I can't think of any reason in the hobby world why I would knowingly pay for a CBJ.

[sparrow1122]

Not that anyone cares but I look at PSE as sport fucking. 1/2 on the bed 1/2 off. Upside down. "balls to the wall" fucking. Teeth gritting attitude.

GFE has a cuddle factor and sensuality.

I have had two sessions with CD3 that were PSE (to me) as I left wondering what just happened!?!?

I don't really like the labels as Itheyes are nother indicitive of what to expact. I do homework before reaching out to a provider.

[melannie_star]

Originally Posted by Jackbroker

I don't care about PSE. The litany of acronyms is not as important as a welcoming attitude, a clean, safe and comfortable location and a little IOP. A kind and happy provider who can suspend reality for an hour and make me think she's happy to be naked with me is valuable indeed. Well, maybe I lied a little about the acronyms-cbj is just a nonstarter for me. Just saying.

I like your way of thinking.. I have a question though.. In your opinion.. if a provider is more porn star like, does it make you think it is scripted or not coming from a natural place?

I would also like to add that a lot of us ladies really do appreciate and recognize the importance of what a short time together can have on ones day, week, or even month.
Even if it is just temporary, the feeling it can give you is beyond anything else.

[str8.2.bbbj]

Maybe it's as simple as, "Pussy is what you make it."

It's all about chemistry. I've never met Melanie in person; but because of our back and forth on here, I know it'd be a great, PSE session. We get on like that. But just because a someone says "I'm PSE..." doesn't mean that they can muster the connection to be PSE with you. Maybe you're fat as fuck, maybe you're ugly, maybe you smell (all these "you's" are general statements).

But one thing (in the hobby) that I don't think is implied by PSE is BBFS. BBBJ yes...BBFS NOT AT ALL.

[Alastair]

For me, PSE would be every acronym on the list ending with COF, very little kissing, pretty much wham bam, get your hair out of the way so the camera can see all the action. It has its place. GFE is a little more realistic, hence "girl friend" in GFE. IOP is probably a little more contrived in PSE too. They're both good though - I assume there's a little of both in every encounter unless reviews expose a dead fish.