Hanging up the boots (and spurs)

[j_mack4u]

So how do know when you've seen better days sexually and how do providers feel about older gentlemen who may not be able to perform like they used too. I know personally I'm having an increasingly more difficult time committing to a provider for a number of reasons and I'm feeling more like a lurker than a hobbyist. The longer I wait the more I fear anxiety will add to my list of woes. Maybe it's just time to step away but I sure will miss pussy

[Doglegg]

I can't give a provider viewpoint, only my own.

I hobby two maybe three times a year.

I believe this makes each time special and more memorable.

Just yesterday I was thinking about sharing time min a kitchen, a few bottles of wine, cuddling on a couch, and loving in a shower, followed by a warm bed.

Of course a couple of hours after that I saw two cowgirls - Daisey dukes, boots, and form fitting tops that made me want to just bend them over the hitching post and have at it.

I realized that any memory of fucking is a good memory.

[Camille Fox]

Being with a provider should not cause anxiety

We are here to make you happy, relaxed, and not to judge you. It doesn't matter what you look like, how well you perform, or how well you can satisfy us. A provider who likes people sees past any physical flaw and focuses on caring for her client.

Please, leave the worry of judgment outside our doors. These are the three things I personally care about: are you safe (LE, dangerous), are you clean (hygiene), have you given any ladies any payment issues?

Have fun and, please, reconsider "hanging up your boots" just yet.


Kindly,


Camille

[j_mack4u]

Thanks for the input, I guess it is what it is and it will play out like it's supposed to.

[WestCoastWendii]

Aw... I'm sorry to hear this! Camille is right on the money with how a true session should be. Good luck, where ever your journey may take you

[pickupkid]

Viagra the wonder drug. Plus there are other things to do.

[oneman]

Damn dude. I know this might sound lame but do what you feel is best for you. You scare me because we will all be there someday. Can't you just attach a spring to your once mighty Anaconda? How about a popsicle stick with a rubber band wrapped around it, kind of like a splint? What about all of these things that we hear about everyday, injections which Bonn talked about the other day? Bonn said, he injected it into his thing. According to him, it made his thing stand up like steel.

Here is what I was thinking. I am losing some hair so I figured I would go to one of those poor countries like India, and buy me a young Indian boy. Then I could just go to the doctor, and tell him to transplant some of his hair onto my head. After I am done, you can buy his little worm and have them sew it onto you. Shit, buy two of them and have them put it on end to end so you can have a normal size pee pee since those guys from India have little ones. They transplanted one onto that guy Bobbitt or whatever his name is. He did pornos after that. I admire your humbleness and honesty. There has got to be a way.

[FatMexicanCowboy]

i understand reality hits us physically or mentally.

[inspector farquar]

Nice post, J_mack.

I think if you spend a bit more time choosing your providers your worries will dissipate. And I hope you choose to let them in on your feelings so they can cater a session to your specifications. You do know that some ladies get off to this, right?

Good luck, mate.

[j_mack4u]

Do you have names of those ladies inspector?

[inspector farquar]

Originally Posted by j_mack4u

Do you have names of those ladies inspector?

Well, it depends.

What other requirements do you have besides what you mentioned in OP? Size age ethnicity - does this matter? Are you on budget, or is this important enough to you that you will pay what is needed? How far can you travel, or do you prefer to host?

My point was once you decide what is most important to you, it can easily be found here.

Send me a pm answering those questions and I'll offer suggestions, if you like.