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Originally Posted by gimme_that
So let me ask you guys this........
What if you arrive and notice her pics are fake......but she is very attractive anyway when you arrive. Do you stay and hope for the best service wise........or do you still leave with hard pride and green in your pocket without taking the chance.
I would still leave.....but far too many guys have let the little head keep them around.
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Originally Posted by rrabbit6926
I think too many of us think with the little head and would stay. Especially if were already there, unless you have a sure fired back up waiting. Like someone had mention by staying your encouraging her to use the fake pics. I know some provider that use fake pics but at least try and get the pics looking somewhat like their appearance and when I mention it. The answer is always the same. They don't want to be spotted outside the hobby via LE or worse by family.
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I have left when the lady I met was clearly not the lady in the photoes, and she did not appeal to me. Fortunately I have not had that problem very often. But if she is similar and appealing, I would stay. Why not? One in particular had photos of a similar looking, good looking lady--but she herself was drop dead gorgeous--significantly better looking.
When we talked about it, it was as you said: a privacy concern. Too many ladies have lost jobs and custody of children because the wrong person recognized them.
When guys start posting their photos I suspect they will be more understanding of the seriousness of the risk the ladies assume. Unfortunately until then some ladies will use fake photos. I don't like it but I understand it. And so long as it happens a guy should not feel guilty about walking away.