I would say I'm probably a little more nervous when its a couple. Especially if its her first experience with that lifestyle.
I want to know what is expected. One couple I play with, I was not allowed to touch him for the first few meetings. I could only play with her and she with me. I follow HER rules. Because if mamma ain't happy, then ain't nobody gonna be happy!!!
The things I enjoy in private are enjoyed with both men and women.
I don't limit activities; but again, I follow the expectations of the woman.
I don't need to see a picture of the couple. I do try to get to know them through emails etc., especially if she isn't aware of the hobby life.