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[Old-T]

Originally Posted by heinz5710

After prostate surgery, things got more back to normal but I always wanted the lady to enjoy my company. When that became impossible, I retired.

This will come out harsher than I want it to, but I will say it and hope you get the intended message. No hostility is intended.

You are being a bit selfish if you decide for a lady whether she enjoys your company. Especially with established friends in this business it can be about much more than an specific physical activity.

I was with a lady last week. Because of a temporary physical issue sex was not an option, but we have known each other a long time and the couple hours were spent with great enjoyment and sensuality by both of us. The clock broke and the scheduled two hours became almost four. As we parted she asked if I was still in town the next evening and if she could come over OTC.

Sex or no, she sure seemed to enjoy my company. Don't assume for her that she won't enjoy yours--give her the chance to decide if she likes being with you.

[Guest061814]

I'll chime in about actual intercourse being necessary to please a lady. Not an absolute at all! You sound like a nice and sexy, considerate man, Mr. Heinz. Don't sell yourself short.

[ck1942]

Personally, I can live with some fairly accurate "self-description" by the lady; no photos required.

Thing is, I am here for the "whole" person and not the person's "hole(s)" - and while some ladies understand this, others haven't yet learned.

"Orgasm" is the release of endorphins by the brain -- a little dopamine goes a long way. Whether stimulated by sex or intimacy doesn't matter.

However, imo, intimacy can be a whole lot better than sex per se.

I enjoy both, but sex w/o intimacy (and I don't by this mean IOP) just isn't as fulfilling.

Old-T is spot on the money!

[Lexieinhouston]

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Originally Posted by Old-T

This will come out harsher than I want it to, but I will say it and hope you get the intended message. No hostility is intended.

You are being a bit selfish if you decide for a lady whether she enjoys your company. Especially with established friends in this business it can be about much more than an specific physical activity.

I was with a lady last week. Because of a temporary physical issue sex was not an option, but we have known each other a long time and the couple hours were spent with great enjoyment and sensuality by both of us. The clock broke and the scheduled two hours became almost four. As we parted she asked if I was still in town the next evening and if she could come over OTC.

Sex or no, she sure seemed to enjoy my company. Don't assume for her that she won't enjoy yours--give her the chance to decide if she likes being with you.

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