Ever wonder who writes the verbage in a ladies website, showcase, p411 page ?

[Tara Evans]

Originally Posted by GracePreston

We all tend to market to our strengths. Miss Evans markets her killer abs-- lots and lots of pictures showing em off. Some ladies market themselves as the sweetheart. Some make a great living marketing themselves as the bitch. Myself and a few others DO market ourselves to the more cerebral crowd.

I personally love it when someone schedules with me because they like my grey matter. But I'm not complaining with someone schedules with me because they like my killer rack either!! You don't have to be a genius to suck dick. Not that it hurts... but hey.

If you say I market my self a lot, I'm confused. I've posted 8 adds in the past 4 yrs?? Help me out there. And hell yes I'm going show off my abs. I run 5 miles every day. Why the crap wouldn't I sweetie? I've got guys the schedule with me just because they like what I write. Now carry on.

[Stallion81]

Don't take any crap, Tara! You've got the tightest body in town.

[wynter_ice]

Originally Posted by zebra

Can you tell which ladies took their time building their P411 page or website ? You can tell which ladies applied themselves, put a lot of effort into it, were articulate in creating the words, sentences, and paragraphs within their site. A lot of men don't even acknowledge this, they don't care, all they want is their dick sucked or to get off and get on down the road. Where I am going with this is do you ever wonder about the ladies who use poor wording, improper spelling, or just cant convey the message they want you to know, or worse and use ebonics and you don't have the new 2014 Ebonic Dictionary on hand ?

Some ladies you just have to overlook cause they are veterans, well known in the hobby, solid reputations, and have multiple positive reviews and they don't show creativity when posting an ad or don't care cause they have many regulars from over the years.

Who wrote her provider ad, her webpage, her P411 site or the biography in her Showcase or did she create this herself ?

Some ladies there is no creativity, no effort is shown or put into creating their Provider Ad, Showcase, Webpage, etc. No sentences, just individual words like GFE, PSE, love you very long time.

I still understand the message they wish to convey with words alone but I ask myself is this a lady I want to go visit or go visit a lady who puts a little more effort into writing her ad, writes with a little more spunk & creativity and shows me that she has substance up their between her ears..

I was reading a e-mail I get from a private forum, one that is sent to all members of the group.

The lady they were discussing, I wont mention her name but I visited her Showcase and I read;

all natural girl, sweet, sophisticated and unhibited. You will find me to be an up-lifting, breath of fresh air.

unhibited... Still looking for the meaning or how I could use it with this lady...

She is not the only lady on ECCIE, there are hundreds here that cant spell, use a spell check, or put comma's in where they don't belong or they write and it does not read good or sound right. Ok, maybe it is just my opinion. I will shut up. Chime in if you wish

[Grace Preston]

Originally Posted by Tara Evans

If you say I market my self a lot, I'm confused. I've posted 8 adds in the past 4 yrs?? Help me out there. And hell yes I'm going show off my abs. I run 5 miles every day. Why the crap wouldn't I sweetie? I've got guys the schedule with me just because they like what I write. Now carry on.

It was a compliment. I admire your abs. I'd show em off too if I had them!! It was more a demonstration that we all market our strengths. You have a showcase that features your lovely abs as well as your rotating avatar. I never said you "market a lot"... but you've found your key to attention with your pics. It isn't a negative thing.

[Prime Time]

Rhodes Scholars

[FunInDFW]

Originally Posted by Prime Time

Rhodes Scholars make mistakes too when their fingers are too greasy from all that did chicken.

Ftfy

[Halfbad]

Simply put, a showcase or P411 is an already paid for opportunity for one to SELL one's self. Its there, might as well use it. Pics are the same . . .

Relying on reviews is a slippery slope as only one bad one seems to create a whole series of "I won't see her now" from other hobbyists, even if there are a slew of good ones. I DO realize that is not always the case as many of us are able to see past one bad for the many good. The other side of that coin however, having read thousands of reviews, the majority are not much more than Letters to Penthouse quality. Not a slam, its the result of the provider having made the client feel like "HE MAN"! :cheesy:

I don't write reviews anymore; I did on ASPD and the resulting PM's were more trouble than they were worth with dumb, stupid, or nasty questions/comments. I NEVERY had a bad experience and I believe that is because of the interaction with the provider before we ever met. I also did a meet and greet with almost every lady before any BCD activities. Sure that cut down on potential liaisons as many were not up for that, but in the end the effort was always worth it. When a meet and greet wasn't available, calls were . . . one lady who is still with us had a voice that the instant I heard it I was totally hooked

These days I also have more to protect as I only hobby with my SO so I rely on the PROVIDER to attract; to entice; to cause me to take the first step. It also why I don't write reviews.

So ladies, try to write something that describes YOU . . . it may turn off some that are not looking for what you have, but it may also build a reliable group of regulars that will always be there.

And for Ged's sake, lose the pouty lip pics . . .

[!!Sexy Erotic Morgan]

I write and design all of my stuff. I had someone design my very first website and I HATED IT! They did not get me at all and I have been doing it myself ever since.

I think most ladies SHOULD have someone else write and design her ad. Most girls do not become personally invested in making sure her message is delivered exactly how she intends it. Most are more concerned with the calls that result from the ad, as they should be. A third party advertiser would improve not only the text, but the images too and improve her web presence.

Its ok for a provider not to be great at advertising. Really its not her job. It's more important that she realize she is no good at it and get someone else on it right away.
Bad ads attract bad clients.

[OldGrump]

I'm sure many get suggestions from happy clients. It is easy to tell who had help or not. But who cares? If the presentation attracts you and the session is even better, isn't that why we are here?

Some errors can be due to faulty spell checkers that insert the wrong word or from just typing too fast (yes, they should proof read, but some words get past you). "Unhibited" went right past me until I read your second sentence pointing it out.

I hate to think how many times I have to backspace because I hit an errant key or got lost in my thoughts and wrote an unintelligible sentence.