Upcharge for Greek

[Silverchair]

I know this topic has been discussed before, but I'd like to hear a fresh take from the newer ladies.

Some providers upcharge for Greek, some do not.

In my experience, those that don't upcharge are the providers and truly enjoy and get off on it. (Even stating they love it in their personal lives.)
Those that upcharge don't seem to really truly enjoy it but rather just offer it due to demand.

For those ladies that offer Greek:
Why do you or don't you offer an upcharge for it?

[Mya_love]

I do agree I am fresh meat I never done it so I always inform someone that I will up charge and I will have to take it slow I hard it hurts !!!

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

I have offered greek both with and without an additional charge. There are pros and cons to both approaches, and asking an additional fee for greek has little to do with whether the provider enjoys greek or not.

On one hand, I have had clients who have been upset when I decline a request for greek. I even had one gentleman tell me that he felt ripped off and deceived because my reviews indicated that greek was available. He clearly did not comprehend the YMMV prinicple.

Anytime I get a review that includes greek, I notice an uptick in requests for greek, which is fine with me, but guys need to understand that greek is not a service a woman can provide every day.

One reason I have asked for an additional fee for greek in the past is to reduce how frequently greek is requested. So that is one reason why an additional fee makes sense. Guys who really love greek are willing to pay the fee, those who perhaps enjoy it, but for whom it is not a priority can choose not to pay the additional fee.

On the other hand, I found that when I offered greek for an upcharge, greek was requested alot less frequently. For me, this was a problem because well, dammit, sometimes I just want my ass fucked like its a rented mule, and it didn't seem very fair that when I was in the mood for it, I would tell the guy fuck it like you own it dammit, and meanwhile other men are showing up with the extra donation for it.

So after trying out both options, I feel more comfortable not asking for an additional fee for it, but I still reserve the right to say no. Greek is YMMV and more often than not I am the one suggesting it, not the guy.

In other words, some women like myself may offer Greek at no upcharge, but the fact that some women do ask for an upcharge is not necessarily an indication that they don't actually like Greek.

[Menthril]

I have never partaken of the Greek isles. I had recently ask a provider that I was visiting and she indicated an upcharge. While I might have taken her up on it had I brought the extra, I was a little put off by the fact that reading through her reviews I had never seen an upcharge indicated in the reviews. Granted I didn't let it bother me too much for we continued on with the session.

[Silverchair]

As always, you make some great points Sins - and had me laughing out loud at your "...my ass fucked like a rented mule" comment! When the provider is asking for it because she is in the mood and she wants it turn out to be my most enjoyable sessions.

I can understand that Greek is always in demand and few providers can offer this service for all clients all the time - having that upcharge is a great way to reduce demand.

Getting upset because Greek isn't on offer is just childish. If that's truly what you want from a session, you should ask for its availability before scheduling.

[bigcockpussylicker]

Originally Posted by Silverchair

, you should ask for its availability before scheduling.

dont providers get mad when you ask this about services that will happen in the time you are buying?>

[Silverchair]

Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

dont providers get mad when you ask this about services that will happen in the time you are buying?>

Not if you have tact and discretion. Being brutish and blunt does put providers off. However if you're subtle and discreet with your conversations, both of you generally know what each are expecting.

Rule 1 of Hobby Club - don't specifically talk about sex acts for money.
Rule 2 of Hobby Club - don't specifically talk about sex acts for money.

I'll admit I've been disappointed when Greek didn't happen in a session when I was thinking it was a possibility. However I know Greek is a YMMV thing with every provider in every session. If you're the type to get butt hurt (pun intended) when Greek is declined, don't ever go in expecting it.

One thing I've learned in this hobby is to go in with minimal expectations. Trying to get an idea of the providers menu, personality etc through PM's/emails/texts etc. is always beneficial when choosing who to see, but you should always go in with minimal expectations. When you meet the provider you want to see and she is different in looks from her photos, her personality doesn't mesh with yours and her performance is subpar, you'll be less inclined to be as disappointed as you went expecting nothing, no preconceived notions and without high expectations.

If the woman behind the door is as beautiful, if not more, than her photos, she has a fun personality that you click with and she's a hellcat in the bedroom, you have time of your life and you can't wait for the next time.

[bigcockpussylicker]

Originally Posted by Silverchair

Not if you have tact and discretion. Being brutish and blunt does put providers off. However if you're subtle and discreet with your conversations, both of you generally know what each are expecting.

Rule 1 of Hobby Club - don't specifically talk about sex acts for money.
Rule 2 of Hobby Club - don't specifically talk about sex acts for money.
e.

what's the reasoning behind that?
a provider thinks she'ls being set up so when she meets a guy from eccie, and she had told him via PM, yes, I'll blow you for $$$
so then when she meets the guy, the cops will show up and pull a Hanson on her and say, .look at this PM, you said you DO x for Y! OMG WE HAVE YOU NOW!

the cops show up without the PM and they won't do shit cause they have evidence?
is that what is thought about not being direct?

Or is it more of a provider doesnt want a review saying, "she told me, she'd do X for Y and never did!:
btw, I showed up not having showered in 2 days, nor shaved, nor brushed my teeth..."
-That last part would not be said, but the provider has given herself an out.

I think its the second, but providers will claim its the first. Either way, caution is understood.

Both make sense to me, which is why I'd prefer a cheap way to meet a provider other than a session

, I'd buy them a drink etc so they would know I'm not gross and Im actually funny/easy to get along with in person and very much easier to get along with than i seem from my 200posts, which happen when I'm bored/mentally "enhanced"

[HAG7591]

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

I have offered greek both with and without an additional charge. There are pros and cons to both approaches, and asking an additional fee for greek has little to do with whether the provider enjoys greek or not.

On one hand, I have had clients who have been upset when I decline a request for greek. I even had one gentleman tell me that he felt ripped off and deceived because my reviews indicated that greek was available. He clearly did not comprehend the YMMV prinicple.

Anytime I get a review that includes greek, I notice an uptick in requests for greek, which is fine with me, but guys need to understand that greek is not a service a woman can provide every day.

One reason I have asked for an additional fee for greek in the past is to reduce how frequently greek is requested. So that is one reason why an additional fee makes sense. Guys who really love greek are willing to pay the fee, those who perhaps enjoy it, but for whom it is not a priority can choose not to pay the additional fee.

On the other hand, I found that when I offered greek for an upcharge, greek was requested alot less frequently. For me, this was a problem because well, dammit, sometimes I just want my ass fucked like its a rented mule, and it didn't seem very fair that when I was in the mood for it, I would tell the guy fuck it like you own it dammit, and meanwhile other men are showing up with the extra donation for it.

So after trying out both options, I feel more comfortable not asking for an additional fee for it, but I still reserve the right to say no. Greek is YMMV and more often than not I am the one suggesting it, not the guy.

In other words, some women like myself may offer Greek at no upcharge, but the fact that some women do ask for an upcharge is not necessarily an indication that they don't actually like Greek.

This seems like a very reasonable and balanced reply to me. As a potential client who has never had Greek (wife has issues) I may like to try it sometime - just because ----

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

I have offered greek both with and without an additional charge. There are pros and cons to both approaches, and asking an additional fee for greek has little to do with whether the provider enjoys greek or not.

On one hand, I have had clients who have been upset when I decline a request for greek. I even had one gentleman tell me that he felt ripped off and deceived because my reviews indicated that greek was available. He clearly did not comprehend the YMMV prinicple.

Anytime I get a review that includes greek, I notice an uptick in requests for greek, which is fine with me, but guys need to understand that greek is not a service a woman can provide every day.

One reason I have asked for an additional fee for greek in the past is to reduce how frequently greek is requested. So that is one reason why an additional fee makes sense. Guys who really love greek are willing to pay the fee, those who perhaps enjoy it, but for whom it is not a priority can choose not to pay the additional fee.

On the other hand, I found that when I offered greek for an upcharge, greek was requested alot less frequently. For me, this was a problem because well, dammit, sometimes I just want my ass fucked like its a rented mule, and it didn't seem very fair that when I was in the mood for it, I would tell the guy fuck it like you own it dammit, and meanwhile other men are showing up with the extra donation for it.

So after trying out both options, I feel more comfortable not asking for an additional fee for it, but I still reserve the right to say no. Greek is YMMV and more often than not I am the one suggesting it, not the guy.

In other words, some women like myself may offer Greek at no upcharge, but the fact that some women do ask for an upcharge is not necessarily an indication that they don't actually like Greek.

It's your ass.

JR

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by HAG7591

This seems like a very reasonable and balanced reply to me. As a potential client who has never had Greek (wife has issues) I may like to try it sometime - just because ----

Good answer. Just because.....

JR