BNG Forum...

[Prolongus]

Ladies and gents, what would be the pros and cons of having a forum strictly for those who only want this Activity?

Possible pros:

A quick (and cheap) way to get off. 20 minutes tops.
Girls list themselves as available for this instead of using the Search which brings more clutter than what you're looking for: a Provider that does this.
An alternative to full service when Aunt Flo shows up but you ladies would still like to earn some cash.
A nice intro to each other, kinda like a meet n greet. Hey, if she's this good doing this, I'm coming back for the full deal!
No condoms to fuck with.

Possible cons:

More trouble than they're worth, time wise.
The guy doesn't "get off" in the allotted time.
A bad intro to each other, kinda like a meet n greet. Hey if she's this shitty doing a BBBJ, so glad I didn't go for the full deal! (This could fall under the "Pro" category as well).
Not really enough time for the guy to wash his ass, but...up to u ladies.

The Forum could be set up for ladies to list contact info and links to their Showcase a la the Provider Ads Forum. The ability for her to take her name off the list (since Aunt Flo left town) would keep the Forum up to date.

Whaddya all think? I know the Requests & ISO forum could take care of this but some guys (me) don't use that because of the off-track responses or guys just don't want to put it out there. I just think it would be nice to have one place consolidated for this.

Let's hear some thoughtful responses and suggestions, etc.

[Eva Damita]

Would this be more of an ISO or separate forum ? I believe another pro/con would that providers who offer this can advertise so clearly. Unshockingly, due to past reviews, gents ask me all the time if I can do a BNG session -- which I do not. I don't want to have a 15 line list of rules in my signature. ..so this would be helpful (in the area I am in).

The pros/cons of a BNG forum correlates with BNG pros/cons itself. I understand how helpful they are, but its a slight slap in the face when asked to travel for a BNG and receive pm's showing interest and the gent who has been contacting you back and forth finally pulls the trigger on a BNG instead of a more fruitful experience. Also, it may hinder or help one's business. But is it worth it (wear and tear, time, preparation, not always an accurate sample of the traditional hour session. ) ? For some yes, others not. A BNG forum might just cut out all the bng/quickie inquiries flooding the ISO section. Definitely a pro in my book.

Con: This caters to only one type of provider with a BNG seeking target market. What about equally focusing on gents and ladies seeking multi-hour appointments? Why focus on just one end of the spectrum while it'd be fair for all ladies to have an advertising outlet based solely on session length? Nothing wrong with BNGs. Just doesn't work/not worth the work for everyone.
Great thread!

[Guest110516]

I like the idea, but...

Might be a little too obvious from an LE perspective. Not even an attempt to say it's about companionship -- just $ for a specific act.

[Prolongus]

Bingo:
"A BNG forum might just cut out all the bng/quickie inquiries flooding the ISO section. Definitely a pro in my book." - Eva
About your multi-hour comments, they are always listed in a ladies' Showcase/Ads, etc. not sure a separate forum for that wouldn't be adding to the clutter.
Good points, Eva...thanks.

emptywallet, good point, too but we could leave out what BNG stands for in communication...or call it a Bitch N Gripe throwdown, lol.

A BNG harkens back to the days of SW where you pull over, get your fun and you're done. Just wish for time's sake it was more popular.

[Guest110516]

Originally Posted by Prolongus

...or call it a Bitch N Gripe throwdown, lol.

A BNG harkens back to the days of SW where you pull over, get your fun and you're done. Just wish for time's sake it was more popular.

Whoo hoo! With that definition, I've been getting free, daily BNGs! WINNING!!

I forgot to write that one of the lawyers on the board would be better equipped to comment on the legal aspects of the topic.

[Fantastical]

I agree with the idea of a somewhat separate forum / thread for BnG & such and believe that there will always be pros & cons to deal with either way, but overall it would be helpful to all who choose to use it.. This would also help cut down on the constant bng requests in the ISO forum everyday. But, Rather than limit it to just a bng forum, as originally mentioned I think a short notice availability thread for providers to post their area or general location, availability & (maybe even if they offer bng) would make it a lot easier for hobbyists to find someone available in a particular area & at that time?!

[Prolongus]

Dallas actually had a Short Notice Thread some months ago. Or early last year... It was taken down because rules weren't followed. Providers went beyond their allotted time frames and posted too frequently if I remember correctly.

[LNK]

Originally Posted by Prolongus

Dallas actually had a Short Notice Thread some months ago. Or early last year... It was taken down because rules weren't followed. Providers went beyond their allotted time frames and posted too frequently if I remember correctly.

Assuming that it wasn't ALL the ladies doing that, they should have doled out punishment to the offenders, and left the thread open for those who could follow the rules.

I know it says in the opening post of those threads that violating posts will be deleted, but they can always add: ". . . and points will be given to offenders."

[Monica13]

I have my "Short on Time" special that runs all the time.

[cafriend]

Would probably help those guys who have limited means... or limited time to visit. Would make it easier to find quality ladies here on ECCIE that provide the service.

[midnite312004]

might be good. I for one think its good. Sometimes that's all I want. Hard to come by in Beaumont though.

[Prolongus]

Whadya say, Mods? Sure would be a fast, easy way to get the info out there for the girls who provide this Activity and the guys who want it...

[BLM69]

I like the short on time/quick stop/bng option.

[SpanishMami]

bng's are fun, fast, & easy. but some gents do have a bng confused with a 30 minute bbbj session...

[MrKlean]

+1 on the short notice thread!

I remember the last one. Points etc were given but it required too much work enforcing the rules.


If the OP volunteered to be a MOD for the forum, that may make a difference.


To the mods, consider making the point system public info, like those polls. Offenders of the rules would rack up points which will be frowned upon by hobbyist. That will likely impact the major problems of the last forum.


The point system would be used similar to how reviews are currently being used. Something simple that will not take up much of a Mod's time.


I believe that the majority of hobbyist would support the forum.


Great quality thoughts in the above posts!