Question for the ladies and the men

[JustTheTipO69]

Incall vs Outcall?

Both have their advantages and disadvantages... which do you prefer and why?

For myself, I prefer outcall to my house or outcall to my hotel if I am enjoying the hobby out of town. The advantage for me is that I feel comfortable. I don't live in a gated community but I live on a nice quiet cul-de-sac that has about 12 houses. I am more relaxed and not worried about having to drive or go anywhere especially if I have a beverage or two. The other advantage is that if the appointment goes well and you want to see the provider again she knows a lot more about you and how you live and the second meeting is always much more fun than the first. If I am out of town and going to enjoy the hobby I always make sure that I stay at a hotel with inside doors. I feel safer that way.

The disadvantage is that I live on a quiet little street. Nothing says whats going on to your neighbors like a taxi dropping a young lady off and wanting to sit in the driveway for an hour (actually happened... after a couple minutes and he didn't leave I had to have her go tell him he could not stay in my driveway for an hour). Another disadvantage is that if the appointment doesn't go well, then someone you have no plans on ever seeing again knows where you live. I am famous for not bringing random bar hook-ups home for this reason.

I have only been to Incalls at hotels and never at a residence so my scope here is limited, but I am always super skittish even though I will only see providers with reviews that I can verify. I have watched enough episodes of cops and read enough forum posts on LE busts and they are 99.9% of the time incall at hotels with outside doors and/or adjoining rooms. It just always makes me nervous.

What are your thoughts and what do you prefer.... Do you ladies feel differently than the men?

[xmaster]

I'm an InCall kinda guy, for the most part but I'm a bit of an outlier. I've only seen utr's (mostly strippers) for the past 5 years and knew all of them personally beforehand. There are a couple of AMPs in SF that I visit whenever I'm out that way, but that hasn't happened for several years. The only outcall I've done here in PC was to one of the notels near The Toy Box, but (again) I already was on friendly terms with the lass for quite awhile before then.

[New Orleans Natalie]

I only offer incall whether I am at home or at a hotel. Simply put, I am a professional offering a service and I know what I need to do a good job. When I create the environment, I can be sure those things are available. That said, I can understand when a client wants an escort who "delivers." I can also understand being a little nervous going to an incall for the first time. And I think it is a good policy for ALL of us to avoid the lower end "motels" with doors that open into parking lots! (I hadn't really thought about adjoining rooms--do those even EXIST anymore?)

[Cpalmson]

Yes, adjoining rooms still exist.

I prefer a lady have an incall. It is so much easier-- especially when playing local. I don't like having to pay for the room and then pay for the lady's time. I feel that if playing local that I shouldn't absorb both costs. I will ask for a discount if I'm paying for the room.

[B3astmode]

I'm definitely an incall type of guy big have done several outcalls over the last 8 years. I normally stick with the adventurous massages and prefer incall for those. I also frequent a few gentlemanly establishments and have good personal utr relationships with a few dancers. Those connections are almost always outcalls.

[rkedge]

I've been in the hobby for about 7 years now and 95% of the time I prefer incall. I'm married so "unauthorized" hotel bills are a no-no, and it's just embarrassing to pay for hotel room with cash... trust me they know what's up. And Like CP said, when playing locally it rubs me the wrong way to pay for both. When touring girls are charging the same price for the whole package it's hard to justify.

The only times I've done an outcall is when I already have legitimate reason to have a hotel alone (traveling on business, etc.). Most of those have gone well... most.

-rk