Have you ever been turned down by a provider at the door because of your looks

[surcher]

I only get that from civilians!

[jazzguy]

Have not been turned down at the door but I am positive a couple have wished for someone else. Not fat so not sure why. No matter....still looking for an atf.

[LexusLover]

Originally Posted by CivilBarrister

I would just point, smile and say "me!"

That was the purpose of the visit, right?

[Danielle Reid]

I've never turned any client down due to looks, unless he suddenly changed race during the reference check.

Every guy deserves some hooker lovin' (well, almost every haha)

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by Sjc21108

A better, or as interesting, question... Have you as a provider, ever not turned a guy down at the door and wanted to throat punch yourself for that decision?

Never turned any gentleman away at the door, but I have asked a few to depart for various reasons, usually because they wanted something I don't do and were being rude and/or forceful about it.

One time I let a fellow in who had been working hard outdoors all day (quite admirable), but his uniform was greasy, he was quite sweaty and aromatically displeasing, and obviously he hadn't brushed his teeth since breakfast, or perhaps dinner the night before. We sat and talked for a while over a drink, me letting him relax but expecting him at any moment to excuse himself to take a shower. Finally he asked me if I was stalling and when were we going to "get to it?" I said as soon as he freshened up, and offered to set out a new toothbrush and towel for him and even join him in the shower to scrub his back. He was truly surprised. Why should he bother taking a shower first when he was going to have to scrub up afterward anyway?

Really?

He got mad when I told him, politely, that before we got dirty he would have to get lickably clean first. Demanded I "do what you're paid for," and when I refused, handed him his envelope, and asked him to leave, he called ME a "dirty whore" who wasted HIS time.

Thus was born an entire section of my website addressing etiquette and hygiene before visiting me or any other provider. Sad that some guys need instructions on this.

[SneakyCancer]

never at door.....but did have one hottie turn me down when I finally made it to hotel. I stood to the side of peep hole and she said it creeped her out. so I make it back to car and she is looking out window at me.

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

Originally Posted by zyzz

I was just curious if anyone has ever been turned down at the door after meeting for the first time. Any stories? How did you react and feel?

Unless he looks jacked up/tweeking on some illegal substance or drunk um turn him away for what?

[Guest072624]

Only if I get a creepy vibe from them. I could care less how they look.

[Guest022315]

The nice thing about p411 Gina will get in that ass if a lady accepts your appoinment request thru p411 then turns you away at the door. Key word ladies I said at the door. Which means it is ok to still cancel beforehand but once the knock is made I suggest you have valid reason/lie besides he is black, fat, old etc etc etc. BTW I do encourage brothas to get p411.

[AshleighRicci]

I'd be mortified if I got turned down at the door, so I wouldn't do it. Only once did I give someone extremely obese a chance and terminate halfway in. I felt bad and thought he might retaliate with a bad review, but I'd like to think I saved him face over just slamming the door and running away, but I wasn't willing to leave empty handed for my travel time and efforts, so he didn't object to paying half of his scheduled 2 hours. I think it's part of the fun to go into an appointment not knowing what to expect (I met someone with a Jewish name who turned out to be very muscular and black, not the scrawny Jewish guy I'd assumed!) and usually I have no preconcieved idea, unless the email comes from a clearly ethnic name, or a physical description/photo is offered (I don't solicit info on looks.) I think people very obese should be up front about it like someone with a physical disability is inclined to be. It helps us prepare and could soften the blow if the app is awkward or simply not executable.

[Island_Gent]

The very first time with someone I now see fairly regularly, when I entered the room, I got the distinct vibe that I wasn't EXACTLY her cup o'tea. But she soldiered through and was the consummate professional.

When we were done there was a fair bit of banter and a lot of laughs, and before long she was clearly a lot more at ease.

Now when I see her, we fuck like rabbits!

Particularly enjoyed the Lotus Position recently.

[thor66]

Never been turned away...

On the other end of the spectrum, I've been offered discounts on occasion. I take it as a complement and show my appreciation