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Old 11-22-2013, 04:03 PM   #1
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How to Approach a provider with a fantasy thats over the top and not offend them in any way
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Old 11-22-2013, 04:17 PM   #2
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Get to know them and develop a rapport first.
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Old 11-22-2013, 05:06 PM   #3
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Fantasy is fantasy. We all have them and they're all different. Asking never hurt anyone. Jmo
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Old 11-22-2013, 05:47 PM   #4
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Get to know them and develop a rapport first.
+1, Rocky. I totally agree. A good comfort level is paramount when discussing any hobby activity in specific detail. Otherwise you might scare the provider away.

Of course, to establish a rapport, you might actually have to spend some time talking to the "whore," and we all know how controversial that is!
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Old 11-22-2013, 06:21 PM   #5
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+1, Rocky. I totally agree. A good comfort level is paramount when discussing any hobby activity in specific detail. Otherwise you might scare the provider away.

Of course, to establish a rapport, you might actually have to spend some time talking to the "whore," and we all know how controversial that is!
O oh darn you mean I would have to do something I like to do like talking and getting to know a little better. .... sounds like fun to me
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Old 11-22-2013, 06:26 PM   #6
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O oh darn you mean I would have to do something I like to do like talking and getting to know a little better. .... sounds like fun to me
Ummm... Fuck me, you're hired? No, I think I'm hired. Lol
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Old 11-22-2013, 06:44 PM   #7
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Ummm... Fuck me, you're hired? No, I think I'm hired. Lol
Ummmmm ....fuck you .... ok get that pillow ready , got to ride around that track in hot springs. ...
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Old 11-22-2013, 07:10 PM   #8
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+1, Rocky. I totally agree. A good comfort level is paramount when discussing any hobby activity in specific detail. Otherwise you might scare the provider away.

Of course, to establish a rapport, you might actually have to spend some time talking to the "whore," and we all know how controversial that is!
You could always just grunt and point like our ancestors did
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Old 11-23-2013, 01:00 AM   #9
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You could always just grunt and point like our ancestors did
Would that include the caveman drag her by the hair back to the cave or is that extra?
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Old 11-23-2013, 01:06 AM   #10
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You could always just grunt and point like our ancestors did
If that's what you want me to do in your fantasy, I'm all in! Lol

I think it's time we worked on developing our rapport...
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Old 11-23-2013, 04:43 AM   #11
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Well dancing around it does no one any favors. Nut up or shut up, buddy! The worse she can say is NO, FUCK YOU!

Then again I'm not as soft as most women so take this with a grain of salt.
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Old 11-24-2013, 04:50 PM   #12
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+1, Rocky. I totally agree. A good comfort level is paramount when discussing any hobby activity in specific detail. Otherwise you might scare the provider away.

Of course, to establish a rapport, you might actually have to spend some time talking to the "whore," and we all know how controversial that is!
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O oh darn you mean I would have to do something I like to do like talking and getting to know a little better. .... sounds like fun to me
+1+1+1+1+1
I've to agree with the above.
My Idea of foreplay has never been ,,,, to walk in,,,, Drop my pants,,, and say "Suck my Dick NOW Bitch". But then again I guess there are a few hobbyist on the board that think that this type of behavior will make the girls super wet and make them want to try their very best to make sure that the hobbyist walks away happy .
@ Rockydoc
Got to agree with you completely on establishing a solid comfort zone with a provider before we get to far out there with our requests,,, LOL
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Old 11-24-2013, 05:29 PM   #13
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+1+1+1+1+1
I've to agree with the above.
My Idea of foreplay has never been ,,,, to walk in,,,, Drop my pants,,, and say "Suck my Dick NOW Bitch". But then again I guess there are a few hobbyist on the board that think that this type of behavior will make the girls super wet and make them want to try their very best to make sure that the hobbyist walks away happy .
@ Rockydoc
Got to agree with you completely on establishing a solid comfort zone with a provider before we get to far out there with our requests,,, LOL
+1. To me, the ability to make a 'stranger' comfortable is paramount to having a great session BCD! In addition, it makes the client & provider both comfortable enough to share fantasies, making it that much more likely to happen...

Interpersonal skills are the integral difference between a 'whore' and an escort...and a convincing illusion of passion, IMO.
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Old 11-24-2013, 07:51 PM   #14
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There was a review in Dallas a couple of months back that I thought was a wonderful fantasy for the guy. You decide, do you agree? A couple of very popular Dallas ladies who had done doubles together set it up for the guy. The guy had a room for the visit and the lady arrived and never said a word and got in to bed with him. The room was dark, he did not know who it was until the end of the session. No words were spoken or lights turned on until the end of the session. Not sure how they handled the key for the room as she came and unlocked the door and he was already naked under the covers. I think that is a great fantasy visit.
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Old 11-24-2013, 10:06 PM   #15
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There was a review in Dallas a couple of months back that I thought was a wonderful fantasy for the guy. You decide, do you agree? A couple of very popular Dallas ladies who had done doubles together set it up for the guy. The guy had a room for the visit and the lady arrived and never said a word and got in to bed with him. The room was dark, he did not know who it was until the end of the session. No words were spoken or lights turned on until the end of the session. Not sure how they handled the key for the room as she came and unlocked the door and he was already naked under the covers. I think that is a great fantasy visit.
Well....yeah....maybe. I mean some dude named Oedipus did something like that once....I think he got a complex from it.
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