How should would you want to handle overtime.

[theotherguy1]

Ladies I have another question for you. How would you like for a man to handle a situation where he needs to go into overtime but does not have the additional fund on him? You know when some old guy, like me, actually fined that one lady that is helping him to reach that second climax but you are starting to run out of time. Since most old guy only get lucky sometime it is not like he can wait and try it again next time. He wants to “strike while the iron is hot”. It makes us old men feel young again if we can get that second or third one. Would you just tell him sorry “Old man” you will have to hope for the best next time?

[#SarahLynn]

A lot of my appts go over by a few mins or so ! Just don't take advantage of her time ! 10mins 15mins ok but don't push it !

[theotherguy1]

Originally Posted by sarahlynn72701

A lot of my appts go over by a few mins or so ! Just don't take advantage of her time ! 10mins 15mins ok but don't push it !

No, I am talking about when you push it like 30 to 45 minutes over. What I am asking is I know that he should be responsible for paying for your extra time but how should you both handle it when he doesn't have the funds in his pocket. I know that I don’t carry cash around with me. That way I can laugh at the stickup artist. The other reason I don’t use cash is that I pay for everything with credit card and pay the credit card off every month, #Frequent Flyer miles.

[datylikes]

Very good point TOG,
To me, it is always a hobbyist's responsibility to have the funds readily available to take care of such a situation.
If a lady is gracious enough to extend her time with us, we should never take advantage of her sweet nature.
It's always been a pay as you play program for me and I've never asked for a line of credit,,, LOL

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by theotherguy1

No, I am talking about when you push it like 30 to 45 minutes over. What I am asking is I know that he should be responsible for paying for your extra time but how should you both handle it when he doesn't have the funds in his pocket. I know that I don’t carry cash around with me. That way I can laugh at the stickup artist. The other reason I don’t use cash is that I pay for everything with credit card and pay the credit card off every month, #Frequent Flyer miles.

No extra cash and you want to go over? No problem, I have a card reader that I plug into my iPhone Only used it once for an overnight date.

Seriously, I think it's better if you have some extra cash on you for those JIC moments. After the date you can go spend it on something to get rid of it or add it back to you bank account if you don't give it to the provider.

[Ginger Doll]

If you know that you have the tendency to go over, then carrying extra cash should be a no-brainer.

Even with extra cash available, it's not always possibly for a provider to go over the time that you have both preplanned to spend together. She may have another obligation that you will make her severely late to, or even miss out on entirely. That could detrimentally affect her reputation with other hobbiests, and cost her unknown amounts of lost business as a result of a bad review or NCNS report.

If you know that you like 2 having 2 pops, and the second coming routinely goes into overtime, it's better to schedule it that way from the get-go. You will be avoiding the pressure you face to (re)produce within a short amount of time, and avoid offending the provider by shortchanging her or messing up her schedule.

In situations where she allows you to go over and you're not prepared to compensate her on the spot, you can always send her a comparable amount via an Amazon gift card. It's secure to pay using your CC & no info other than her email address is necessary.

Most girls love to shop, so I'm sure anyone would appreciate the gesture.

[ragooh_aus]

Why would you not just book for the amount of time you'll need? I am sure that if you become a regular to one lady and you routinely leave early, she would credit you some time on the occasion you needed something extra. I have also found that these generous ladies will make special arrangements of their time to a fellow hobby friend that they have built a relationship with.

Be generous and they with pay it forward.