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SweetNessa4u · 08-19-2013, 11:04 PM

http://www.escortstings.com/all-about-escorts/
I was browsing and came across this page - just thought id share...

h0neymustard · 08-20-2013, 04:13 AM

Do you agree with what's in there?

SweetNessa4u · 08-20-2013, 10:42 AM

Pretty much

Ciedoc · 08-20-2013, 12:31 PM

Mehh I prefer incall to outcall on first dates. Guess its the paranoid in me I don't want someone I don't know that well coming to my place for fear of a return trip with a couple hoods to rip me off or even the potential for blackmail etc. Would rather "risk" it and do incall till I know I click with a lady a few times then set up the outcall for longer dates. Sure I am taking on risk going to incall but I tend to research, research, research, and then research even more before committing to a little fling and hyper aware of the surroundings in case anything feels out of place. Few other things in the article didn't quite buy either but then maybe its the area you hobby in too.

SweetNessa4u · 08-21-2013, 01:28 PM

Totally understand and somewhat agree. I prefer invalid personally because I have less risk of walking into danger or wasting my money and time. The business isn't what it used to be that's for sure.. can never be too careful. Some say I'm paranoid I say I'm careful, if people can't understand and respect my screening then I must pass, simply because what's understood needs no explanation and ppl should be glad Im safe not careless. If I come off strong I apologize I'm really an angel. (*¯︶¯*)

Phrasing · 08-21-2013, 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by SweetNessa4u

Totally understand and somewhat agree. I prefer invalid personally because I have less risk of walking into danger or wasting my money and time. The business isn't what it used to be that's for sure.. can never be too careful. Some say I'm paranoid I say I'm careful, if people can't understand and respect my screening then I must pass, simply because what's understood needs no explanation and ppl should be glad Im safe not careless. If I come off strong I apologize I'm really an angel. (*¯︶¯*)

I agree with you can't be too careful. Being paranoid is the same thing as being safe, it's the view of the person who cares to see you. If they really want to see a provider, then it is careful, if it is just too rock off then it's paranoid. Not meaning to step on any toes, but that's how I see it.
Then again, depending on how you screen, that could be a whole other story

SweetNessa4u · 08-21-2013, 02:32 PM

honestly its basic screen plus go with gut.... I personally don't feel I'm bad, i just get a lot of first timers and they just don't get the whole screening process, so they bail. But I'm not going to risk myself for non-compliant people who dont care enough to see the reasoning behind it. oh well

SweetNessa4u · 08-21-2013, 11:37 PM

4 the most part... I think newbies Should read so they get the idea of how things work. life sure would be a lot easier if they were schooled so they dont waste so much time then getting freaked out and bail ..straight to the ones who dont care enough to screen
and end up getting caught up. I am one of the few that actually care about others as i care for myself.... it's just so frustrating lol NEWBS PLZ ASK QUESTIONS AND ADVICE... IT will make things so much better for everyone ♡♡♡♡ヽ(^。^)ノ

Keyhole Arc Blow · 08-22-2013, 08:31 PM

So how do you screen if you don't mind me asking. The only screening I went through was pretty easy, for the second provider I saw. After that I guess I had enough reviews that providers thought I was good enough. As such I'm not really versed on what you ladies do to screen.

SweetNessa4u · 08-23-2013, 12:17 AM

my screening isnt that bad.. just ask a few questions, get a feel of who they are to see what kinda vibe i get, check intelius, peoplesmart, Google and public data then go w my gut... of course if they're eccie / p411 I check reviews and such