Brit... Of course Dreams is an adult and can fend for herself. But I don't like underdogs and it appears as if you and Granny and others are feeding on her like sharks. I can't see anything of importance that she has done wrong. Every move she makes is being scrutinized, dissected and spit upon. I see no need for that. And I do see that the main instigator of almost all ridicule on this site to be Granny.
And I DO KNOW that Dreams has been involved in not nice things in the past. We ALL have transgressions. But that is the past. She has every right to be here today as anyone else. So no it is not that I am infatuated with or in love with Dreams, I just don't think the behavior toward her is fair... regardless of whether she may or not be 'arrogant, self-flattering or as pretty as she thinks', (Granny?).
And every time ANYONE goes against Granny, she attacks. That is her mode of operation. That is how I got started with her as adversary. She was my friend until I piped in that she should not be publicly accusing someone of stealing from her without having direct proof, and that it was best dealt with personally between the aggrieved parties. At that point I became her enemy.
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...ht=thief+among
I do know that sometimes the best approach is to let it be, and other times the best approach is perhaps to call her out. Sorry you do not agree with me calling her out this time on her (uncalled for continual) viscous attacks on Dreams... perhaps Granny will now claim that Dreams is part of her imagined harem of mine?