Fancy,
I had read some things like the great resources you linked in the past, but not too recently. Now that I've experienced this phenomenon, a couple of things match what your second resource describes and makes sense to me.
- I preferentially seek out a few mature women and see them repeatedly, so I have the comfort level and intimacy aspect that is mentioned.
- Having previously been a one bell wonder, I have learned to love "tease and denial" wherein my partner gets me close repeatedly and then backs off.
- And lastly, when I am getting close to coming, I think I instinctively contract the pubococcygeal muscles (PC) mentioned.
So, in retrospect, maybe it is no surprise that my revelation has occurred--Yay!!!!! Henceforth I'll try to be more purposeful about it. Personally I think these kind of Os aren't "mini Os" at all. I think they feel pretty much as good as ejaculatory Os. . .. .BUT. . . . . . .I don't get the energy falloff. On the best session so far, I had at least a dozen of these, and I would drop from orgasmic to "floaty" for a short while, which is a nice state of mind. . . . .but 3-10 minutes later I'd be coming again.
If, as you say, anyone, male or female, can achieve this sublime state, then why haven't they!!! These recent sessions have been the best lovemaking of my life by far.