What do you look for in a gfe session

[Eva Damita]

I hear some hobbyists like a little passion as well...

[ICU 812]

Intimacy is paramount: Kissing, caressing and shmoosing.. . .with non-rushed msog.

I had a NURU session a while back and didn't fully enjoy it because the provider (who was great) managed every thing we did: First the shower, then the nuru on a air mattress, then a bath then (and only then) we mgot some free-play on a real bed. It was fun, but not GFE the way I think about it.

[JohnnyYanks]

Yes: you are expecting Johnny Yanks, your 90 minute appointment at 2:30.

No: you are expecting a 90 minute appointment at 2:30, Johnny Yanks.

[offshoredrilling]

two shots on goal and a meal

[Ed Highlight]

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

two shots on goal and a meal

+1 (meal optional - will settle for sammich)

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Eva Damita

I hear some hobbyists like a little passion as well...

Huh?

[CristiCutiepie]

I've been wondering, how do you guys expect to find your provider dressed upon your arrival? Fully dressed in a sexy/cute outfit so she can go out and greet you as soon as you arrive and walk you to her door or in a seductive nighty/lingere set with stocking thigh highs / garter set with heels ??? OR would it be even better if she was just already naked upon your arrival? for less fuss during your session although she would have to discreetly greet you at her door hiding as to not attract any unwanted attention.

[joesmo888]

Originally Posted by crystalwhite69

I've been wondering, how do you guys expect to find your provider dressed upon your arrival? Fully dressed in a sexy/cute outfit so she can go out and greet you as soon as you arrive and walk you to her door or in a seductive nighty/lingere set with stocking thigh highs / garter set with heels ??? OR would it be even better if she was just already naked upon your arrival? for less fuss during your session although she would have to discreetly greet you at her door hiding as to not attract any unwanted attention.

believe it or not I think most hobbyists want you to look normal and not all sexed up with heels and all that. for me I like a girl next door look. jeans or a sun dress.. with lace panties and bra underneath. if i saw you in a leather outfit holding a whip with 4 inch heels I would probably just turn around and leave lol. some hobbyists are into that though and that is fine. I lay out in my P411 profile what I like so i would suggest you always check there with your clients, or like the last provider did with me drop me an email the night before and say "I have X, Y, Z outfits, what would you like?" this really is a nice touch cause it tells me you really care about making me happy and I'm not a number.. I think most hobbyists want to believe we are the only person that entire day you are gonna cater to

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by crystalwhite69

I've been wondering, how do you guys expect to find your provider dressed upon your arrival? Fully dressed in a sexy/cute outfit so she can go out and greet you as soon as you arrive and walk you to her door or in a seductive nighty/lingere set with stocking thigh highs / garter set with heels ??? OR would it be even better if she was just already naked upon your arrival? for less fuss during your session although she would have to discreetly greet you at her door hiding as to not attract any unwanted attention.

I am not normal. I want the lady to be comfortable. Whatever she likes and is comfortable is what I want her to wear.

[RedLeg505]

Originally Posted by crystalwhite69

I've been wondering, how do you guys expect to find your provider dressed upon your arrival? Fully dressed in a sexy/cute outfit so she can go out and greet you as soon as you arrive and walk you to her door or in a seductive nighty/lingere set with stocking thigh highs / garter set with heels ??? OR would it be even better if she was just already naked upon your arrival? for less fuss during your session although she would have to discreetly greet you at her door hiding as to not attract any unwanted attention.

I've had both. Waiting in Lingerie behind the door as I enter. And arriving full in normal civilian dress, with fun stuff underneath.

In either case, I prefer to "unwrap my present' myself and don't particularly like the "let's get comfortable" bit where we both start stripping and end up on the bed together naked. I much rather slowly remove the items, lingerie or civie dress, while kissing, licking, rubbing the newly exposed areas as I go. Exploring the lady bit by bit as I peel clothing off is a great part of the experience and really adds to the GFE feel for me.

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by crystalwhite69

I've been wondering, how do you guys expect to find your provider dressed upon your arrival? Fully dressed in a sexy/cute outfit so she can go out and greet you as soon as you arrive and walk you to her door or in a seductive nighty/lingere set with stocking thigh highs / garter set with heels ??? OR would it be even better if she was just already naked upon your arrival? for less fuss during your session although she would have to discreetly greet you at her door hiding as to not attract any unwanted attention.

Most the time I prefer to start an evening with dinner someplace nice, so the preference is that she be dressed appropriate to where we are going. Other than that, whatever makes her feel comfortable and relaxed. A lady in the proper frame of mind is far more important than what she is wearing.

[OBringer]

Originally Posted by Miss Dreams

GFE ~ You treat the gentleman with the upmost respect and you cater to him in every way that he desires as he treats you and stay in control. I love to take control, call me a freak... A Professional Freak!

You have to kiss or you are not a GFE. You must do different things than the normal or you are not PSE. Not touching or chatting...That's for the beginners, the cbj's and the fast sessions. Feed that to the birds.

Kissing, Cleanliness, Laughing, Touching, Holding, Chatting, Being Yourself and Going that extra mile will cause him to smile and why not have your man of the night happy with a REAL GFE ExXxPerience!

Miss Dreams, you hit the nail on the head! If you don't LFK and DFK, you are NOT GFE. And...it's not just LFK/DFK. How many guys have had LFK/DFK that was mechanical, like they really didn't know how to use their tongue? That's almost worse than not having it at all. But I digress...

To start, LFK, DFK (no, your tongue doesn't have to go down his throat), and BBBJ have to happen. But a provider has to WANT to do these things. If she doesn't like BBBJ, trust me, we're going to feel it. GFE is that lustful look in her eyes, that smile when you walk through the door and they remember you, happy that you have returned. It's intimacy (touching, holding, caressing) and attitude...and it's the exact opposite of doing anything clinically. Honestly, if a provider doesn't kiss well, not even greek (which I LOVE) can make up for that. A great kisser gets my motor running like a Formula I...and I leave the session thinking I could kick Mike Tyson's ass.

I must say I have alot of respect for all you true GFE providers out there who can pull GFE off when they are not attracted to a client. To say you are GFE (and then go through with it) when you are meeting someone for the first time, I don't know if I could pull that off. I tip my hat to you ladies...

Another thing that I've noticed...if a provider is GFE and has good reviews, but you don't feel like she was GFE the first time you meet, give her another session. More than once, I've received a much better session the second time because the provider was more comfortable. And heck, they are probably flattered that you came back...

...and Pyramid...yup, attention to the taint nevah hurts!

[OBringer]

Originally Posted by crystalwhite69

I've been wondering, how do you guys expect to find your provider dressed upon your arrival? Fully dressed in a sexy/cute outfit so she can go out and greet you as soon as you arrive and walk you to her door or in a seductive nighty/lingere set with stocking thigh highs / garter set with heels ??? OR would it be even better if she was just already naked upon your arrival? for less fuss during your session although she would have to discreetly greet you at her door hiding as to not attract any unwanted attention.

It all depends. If she is coming to my place, I like to see her in regular civie clothes. But if I am going to her place, I just love it when she dresses up in lingerie. It makes me feel like she has spent some time to look her best for me, something I have always appreciated from a woman. And besides, taking her clothes off is half the fun!

[ICU 812]

Full menu—sure: But attidude is important and an illusion of passion. Its gotta be an unrushed session and its gotta be all about me/us and no one else.