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Originally Posted by Mr.Chan
If I may address briefly the original definition. If a provider has an advertisement that identifies her as a snow bunny does she limit her availability to gentlemen of other races? it would seem to give the same unfortunate message as those providers who state that they do not see African American hobbyists.
That is to say, if I am a Chinese man, and I see an advertisement that says "I prefer white men.". Am I to infer that I would not be welcomed, or that if allowed to appoint my company would be tolerated but not enjoyed.
I see the appellation frequently, and it usually makes me rapidly lose interest in that provider. At best it is poor advertising.
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Yikes. Touchy subject and I'm sure answers will vary widely from provider to provider.
It would appear that snow bunny is a term of endearment given to Caucasian women by African American men. Sometimes it is shortened to just snow. Example: I was shopping a few days ago and I was approached by a AA male. (28-34ish? I'm bad with age guessing.) He told me that I was, "Tha finest snow he'd eva seen." I could tell by the delivery that it was meant to be a compliment and I took it as such. It is most popular with the more urban/street crowd.
"We're not against rap, we're not against rappers, but we are against those thugs...."
I have no problem with AA men and I have dated many in my personal life. My worst hobby experiences have been with younger black men but a few of my favorite hobby experiences have been with black men... It is impossible to generalize a race or to classify any one collective group of individuals as all bad. I will say that I will not see anyone who speaks or texts in ebonics. Black or white, doesn't matter. If they sound thuggish then I won't see them. I think that most providers establish the no AA policy because of the younger, hip hop crowd. Rap music has glorified pimping and general disrespect of women for over 10yrs. Those are two things that will definitely put a provider on edge.
