Pics and Details....

[KinkLover]

Originally Posted by TexasSexy

After careful review and consideration of all of your unsolicited advice, Im still pretty sure nobody can manange this product better than me. What would you do if you got more than 100 date requests in one hour? Prolly figure out a way to make it more managable.

There's the same group of idiot haters on the board in Florida. Nobody listens to them either.

Yall have a nice day, boys.

If a 100 guys an hour are sending you appointment requests, maybe your time would be better spent deleting all those photo rather trying to drum up more business.

[Brooke Wilde]

Originally Posted by TexasSexy

Part of my screening process also involves reviewing everything you have written on this board

I don't agree with the picture part because I believe we as professionals should not judge our clients by how they look, but the 2ed part (researching a guys handle/board persona) is one of the smartest things a provider can do. I can't count all the times when a girl will whine about a bad review or bad experience yet if she would of just simply searched the clients handle as part of her screening, she would of known he was a jackass.

[TexasSexy]

I havent refused anyone yet. I did cancel two dates with guys I felt were not a good fit. Both were actually really cute. Really cute assholes!

In South Florida there are people from all over the world. Its not like here and this industry is huge there. I posted my first ad a year and a half ago and did not ask for a photo and got over 100 emails in one hour. I was hyperventillating. I took a long walk on the beach and thats what I came up with. Asking for the pic made it managable. Now its a very comfortable habit. Im finding it not to be as necessary here but its hard for me to meet someone sight unseen when its the only way Ive done it for a year and a half.

There it is...the whole truth. I was leaving my comfort zone accepting P411 in lieu of the pic and thats all I was trying to say in this thread. Its pretty sad when its not just the guys hating but the girls too.

I wont bother posting in here or even looking in here again. Im pretty sure the guys Im meeting and want to meet dont waste thier time with this petty bullshit. Thats what Im figuring out.

Over and out.

[Brooke Wilde]

Originally Posted by TexasSexy

Its pretty sad when its not just the guys hating but the girls too.

No, what is pretty sad is that a girl cannot express her opinion to you without being labeled a hater. Get over yourself. This has nothing to do with hate.

Just because I don’t agree with the picture thing does not make me a "hater" ... I expressed my opinion in a polite way, while also agreeing with one of your points.

You are the one who wanted to get cocky and make this personal. You are a business professional, so get some thicker skin and learn to accept others comments like a grown up.

[gearslut]

Girl you have every right to run your life and your business any way you see fit but quite honestly if any of us wanted to send pics in order to be seen we'd just go join Eharmony. Great body tho and it's a shame you'll never see mine.

[BFCjosh]

Originally Posted by TexasSexy

I havent refused anyone yet. I did cancel two dates with guys I felt were not a good fit. Both were actually really cute. Really cute assholes!

In South Florida there are people from all over the world. Its not like here and this industry is huge there. I posted my first ad a year and a half ago and did not ask for a photo and got over 100 emails in one hour. I was hyperventillating. I took a long walk on the beach and thats what I came up with. Asking for the pic made it managable. Now its a very comfortable habit. Im finding it not to be as necessary here but its hard for me to meet someone sight unseen when its the only way Ive done it for a year and a half.

There it is...the whole truth. I was leaving my comfort zone accepting P411 in lieu of the pic and thats all I was trying to say in this thread. Its pretty sad when its not just the guys hating but the girls too.

I wont bother posting in here or even looking in here again. Im pretty sure the guys Im meeting and want to meet dont waste thier time with this petty bullshit. Thats what Im figuring out.

Over and out.

Now it makes sense! It is an IQ test! You want to see guys who are dumb enough or reckless enough to put their professional and personal lives in such jeopardy. I am not saying you would do anything with the pictures, but in the age of the Internet and public outings of clients by providers most guys will not risk it.

[SuthrnSam]

I'm with Brooke, and ALL the guys. And as a TRUE southern LADY, as well as a NATURAL BORN FLORIDA GIRL, I'm embarrassed.

I ain't even looked at yer profile/showcase, and if I were male, I would not bother. Yes, Houston is a hot spot, in multiple ways. But as far as I can tell, personality AND looks matter here. And looks don't matter, if you're a snit.

I always research men's post activity, as well aother things. But since THEY are HIRING me, I feel I do best when I am the sweetheart I am. I want a job, I'm going to please them. Not the other way around. "Hey, Idk if I can work with you, bc you aren't aesthetically pleasing.". Uhhhhh, Yeahhhhh...it would be awesome if we all used real life pics as avatars. But, I appreciate the avatars, because they show me a client's personality. THAT is what makes the difference for me.

So yeah. Next time, put this shit on the powder room, or Facebook. You'll get better opinions, with people as shallow as yourself.

Good day!

~Samantha

[ImaMrCool]

Originally Posted by TexasSexy

I havent refused anyone yet. I did cancel two dates with guys I felt were not a good fit.

This confuses me.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by TexasSexy

There's the same group of idiot haters on the board in Florida. Nobody listens to them either.

Yall have a nice day, boys.

Idiots??? I haven't even posted on this thread, yet.

Yes, the ladies get hundreds of contacts per day. Culling them should be pretty easy. Answer other ladies reference requests first. Then automatically delete the rude and graphic from the start, that will get the number down to something very manageable.

Do the South Florida ladies post taint?

[tbone2u]

If bbkid can't get in because he's too ugly and old.....I don't even have a chance