Do we give providers too much info for screening purposes?

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Originally Posted by plainjoe

I use a verification services (such as P411, Date Check, etc.) so that I do NOT give out personal information. Like Cpalmson states, it is at my discretion that I give out any real life information. IF my verification does not suffice, I move on to another lady.

Joe, that is my point of view as well, though I will give out references of other ladies as well on rare occasion if the person I'm trying to see isn't on P411 or DC).

I have to be comfortable with what I give out. She has to be comfortable I'm not LE or a psycho or rapist. If we cannot agree on what info serves both these purposes we part ways, no harm no foul.

The OP seems to think only his security matters. I don't buy that.

[Guest071313-5]

Originally Posted by kymberlane

and those who are truly high profile stay clear of sites like this.

Not necessarily true. They may have the right connections to hide their tracks. They have advisors usually right.

[MrGiz]

Originally Posted by Gucci

Most people aren't " important " like a mayor or a senator. . .

How is a Senator or Mayor more important than ME?

[pyramider]

You up for re-election? Those public service jobs are cushy.