How do I know?

[new2this2012]

If a provider is really a provider and not LE?


I have an appointment for the session this weekend. I am getting the hotel and she is not trying to control the situation. She has good reviews on here and is on P411.

But..how do you know for sure? Are reviews and being on P411 enough? or am I just a paranoid person?

[Guest022718]

I've only been doing this for a year....but this is what has worked for me. Here are some things you can check:

1) P411 is a good thing. A strong indicator she's a provider.
2) Her reviews....does she have one or two? Or quite a few? More is better....another strong indicator.
3) The people who reviewed her: Do they have other reviews as well? Are they of providers who also have a lot of reviews? If you have selected a provider with only one recent review by someone who has never reviewed anyone else....that would be a negative indicator. I'm not sayin' their LE, 'cause everyone has to start somewhere, but that is what I imagine an LE trap would look like. I don't know for sure 'cause I've not stumbled into one. Many reviews by many hobbyests who have reviewed other ladies who have lots of reviews is a good thing. I think you see the trend here.

Remember, nothing is a sure thing. But I was (rightly) chastised on another board for being too paranoid about LE. Yeah, the stings are out there, but odds are low you are getting into one......even lower if you avoid backpage. Sticking with well reviewed ladies is a good strategy, especially for newbies. It worked for me.

Also, I am discovering that the ladies that have good reviews have them for a reason. If you have made a good choice, prepare to have your socks blown off.

Good luck.

[Bigh1955]

What hgritstoo said plus 15!

Avoid BP ads until you're skilled at checking information...phone and picture history...researching the provider to find out how long she's been working and where she's been - other potential sources of reviews (bigdoggie, ter, naughtyreviews, etc.)

Above all else, avoid the temptation to let horny lil'head call a gorgeous TGTBT provider on BP before you do your homework - that's how guys get in trouble

As grits said, you never know for sure, but well-reviewed ladies with reviews dating back a year or more are normally just a lot of fun.

Sit back, fasten your seatbelt, and enjoy the ride!

[*GoddessDallas*]

hgritstoo...not true.
Many women on here are high profile and not wanting attention.
Many men on here do not write reviews.
Does that mean they are LE?
No.
P411 is not guaranteed...nothing is.
Many women on here put ads on Backpage...REVIEWED PROVIDERS...even some moderators.
Things might be different for you in Nebraska.

[Guest022718]

Originally Posted by *GoddessDallas*

hgritstoo...not true.
Many women on here are high profile and not wanting attention.
Many men on here do not write reviews.
Does that mean they are LE?
No.
P411 is not guaranteed...nothing is.
Many women on here put ads on Backpage...REVIEWED PROVIDERS...even some moderators.
Things might be different for you in Nebraska.

Howdy ma'am.

Just sayin' what worked for me. You are absolutely right that the vast majority of the ads on backpage/eccie/etc are not LE. It's just a matter of playing the odds. Odds are better (but still not 100%) by following my approach.

Nice pics in your showcase. You oughta come visit us in NE. Pretty lonely up here!