How to make an exit?

[bosco_slim]

Went to see a provider recently. Before the door opened I was horny but with in a matter of seconds. I found the lady unattractive in personality and appearance. At this point I'm thinking if I stay the experience is going to be sub par at best on both accounts. I could have told the lady I found her unappealing but wanted to be nice so I made up some BS getting out of there. Question is, If you know by staying it will be a poor experience would you? Or is it better to make an exit early? If so do you tell her she is unattractive?

[JHurt1968]

Just politely excuse yourself, maybe give her $20 for having to cancel, but unless she's a total bitch about it I see no reason to tell you think she's ugly. Even if she is a bitch about you bailing I see no reason to tell her you think she's unappealing. It's just going to end up making a bad situation worse. This type of situation can always be avoided if you do your research, visit verified reviewed providers, and use the big head.

[desm50309]

Along the lines of what jhurt said.

I will always at some point ask the provider if the pics are real, how current, and how accurate they are. If those answers "suit me" then I casually say something along the lines of "if the person at the door does not accurately match the pics I have and will turn and walk away"

This approach has served me well over the years and in all cases the provider reassures me, comes clean or ends the conversation on her own which tells me that something might have been misleading.

Either way this method seems to work for me as ALL of my encounters have been accurate to the pics or my expectations, that is not to say the attitude or personality part is always the best.

[yahoo_ooo]

well this has happen to me a couple of time. the first time when i didn't know what i was doing you could say i took one for the team. once i left the room i couldn't stop coughing jajajaja felt like throwing up i couldn't believe i put myself through that. what i do now is that once they answer the door and they don't look the same as there pics i just walk away, if i fill bad like jhurt said i just drop them 20 and bounce. ill never take one for the team again.

[joshf26]

I've left a provider because she lied to me. I had seen her once before and it wasn't worth the cost. Saw a different ad and went. It was the same girl and I started asking questions. Felt incomplete and decided to leave. The ad had different pics. So I just left. I do research now and if there are no reviews or they are bad reviews, I'm not going to go through with it. I've been burned too many times.

[bosco_slim]

All well said.

On this particular provider I had done my homework and she has positive reviews. I would not call her a bitch, but I could see she was less than interested.

The provider I wanted to see canceled and she was my 2nd pick. Photos look nice online, in person just did not do it for me. I always like to leave on a positive note as you never know what it could escalate into. thanks all

[Old-T]

It depends.

With the cases folks describe above--serious misrepresentation--I have no problem just leaving, and politely letting them know why.

One or twice it was a different sort of thin. It was an accurate depiction, but within a few minutes it was pretty clear things weren't a match. In one the apartment she was in just wasn't clean--way too many cats and associated smell, etc. Another time she was certainly over 18 (over 30 best as I could tell), but came across as not all there mentally. A third had two pimp-looking guys way too close. In each case I said I wasn't feeling well and didn't want to pass any flu bug to her, gave her $100, and left. Those were all when I was younger, and all taught me to screen for personality, etc., as well as accurate representation. Haven't had any such problems since, except for once when I really was feeling sick

[Guest091614-02]

Bosco, you have been around quite awhile. Sometimes even with good research, screening etc. it just doesn't click. You did the right thing. I have gone through the motions sometimes in these situations and regretted it later.
Up at the top of my worst experiences has been 2 different providers with outstanding reviews. We just did not click. On one I wrote a negative review about her and got blasted by other gents. I didn't give a shit since I was just telling my experience. I think we gents sugarcoat our mediocre sessions. A lady is just not going to click sometimes or they are going to have off days. Doesn't make my experience any less truthful if is was not a good experience. I work very hard for my money and want it used wisely. So if the product is not up to snuff leave or give a truthful review. My 2 cents.