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[vidagalore]

is it wrong for a provider to respond to a guys ISO post?

[shorty]

Some ladies do by just saying there located there or they might can help them on there request. Personally if a lady wants to respond to a ISO Request, I think it should be done thru PM.

[Lovelyelle_01]

I don't think there's anything wrong with responding. But, I agree with Shorty as far as answering them through PM. Some people (providers and clients alike) see a lady frequently responding to ISOs and automatically assume that she's a bit desperate.

[gimme_that]

Originally Posted by evagodiva

is it wrong for a provider to respond to a guys ISO post?

It depends on the quality of her response if posted, and the descriptiveness of the ISO Post.

For example if a guy is requesting a spinner and a woman who is clearly not a spinner says she is available. That's just blatant disregard for the whole ISO and makes her look desperate for business to me. Even if she fits the the prototype of the lady he would like, it would do her better to answer via pm. If I see her on multiple threads in iso in a "pick me" stance I may not seek to see her.

I think the only times a provider should respond to an iso post is when its for short availability of the hobbyist or to promote another lady who maybe available that offers what he seeks. Or if she wants to respond just pm him.

Now as far as the original poster of the ISO if he is descriptive in posting and describing an iso for what he would like (body type, day or date of availability, special services such as CIM, Swallowing, or GREEK, etc ) then its a good iso.

1. But most times I see an iso where the guy says "I'm looking for a blow and go, pm me if interested."

My thoughts looking at it:

Why not just seek a lady yourself, why should she have to come to you. You lazy bastard pm someone and do your research lol.

2. The original iso poster posts "Are any providers available tonight?" A provider responds who happens to be BBW, or black.....and then he responds after the fact "oh I only like petite white ladies and I'm not into BBW's."

My thoughts:

BE DESCRIPTIVE. But if they don't I'll help by finding the ugliest or biggest provider I can find and offer them in a post. They usually get real descriptive in the type of lady they seek then. If all else fails Ill post a link to the provider ads section. If they have a link or are descript Ill respond and help them.

[jackbeingbad]

I think it's ok if a provider responds. Think about it, the only other option is for hobbyists to respond, and they're just answer what they THINK would be a good provider for the request. The provider actually know if they're willing to do whatever is being requested.

BTW Looking for girl who allows BBBJ and can hum the entire score for Ride of the Valkeries..

[vidagalore]

Ok ,Interesting .....

[jackbeingbad]

Originally Posted by evagodiva

Ok ,Interesting .....

Don't judge me!

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by evagodiva

is it wrong for a provider to respond to a guys ISO post?

For me personally I would answer by PM, but everyone has a different way of responding, and no one way is right or wrong .

[Cpalmson]

I see nothing wrong with a provider who responds to an ISO. Also, I don't think it matters how they respond-- either in the thread or via PM. Additionally, I don't think it looks desperate for a lady to respond via the thread. Chalk it up to the "early bird catches the worm". What some see as desperate, I see as being aggressive in marketing their services. Now, I will say this. If a guy is specific in his ISO like wanting a spinner or a blonde or a certain service, then the gal better meet the criteria. Only at that point would I consider the gal to be desperate.

As for the guys using ISO, I wouldn't call it lazy or wanting the lady to come to them. I think it is a smart researching tactic. When I know I'll be in a strange location and wanting to hobby, I do my research in the forums, on other boards, via P411, etc. However if I'm not liking what my research is showing, I'll post an ISO to help me cut through all the B.S. I've done this multiple times and it has worked well.

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by Cpalmson

I see nothing wrong with a provider who responds to an ISO. Also, I don't think it matters how they respond-- either in the thread or via PM. Additionally, I don't think it looks desperate for a lady to respond via the thread. Chalk it up to the "early bird catches the worm". What some see as desperate, I see as being aggressive in marketing their services. Now, I will say this. If a guy is specific in his ISO like wanting a spinner or a blonde or a certain service, then the gal better meet the criteria. Only at that point would I consider the gal to be desperate.

As for the guys using ISO, I wouldn't call it lazy or wanting the lady to come to them. I think it is a smart researching tactic. When I know I'll be in a strange location and wanting to hobby, I do my research in the forums, on other boards, via P411, etc. However if I'm not liking what my research is showing, I'll post an ISO to help me cut through all the B.S. I've done this multiple times and it has worked well.

And so to each his own. I personally always just go and answer it through PM if I can help it.