An uneasy feeling about later today.

[Lateralus]

Hey, guys! I hope I'm posting in the right spot.

Last week was my first provider, and she was the first one I called, though it took over an hour to get a call-back. During that time, I tried another number, and she agreed to a meet for that night, but we couldn't get a time that was good for both of us. I got a text from the girl I didn't meet yesterday (about a week after I called it) saying that she was at a specific hotel and offering a GFE special. I told her that night I couldn't make it, then the next morning I asked what the special was, and she told me an amount. In her ad, she said she was "open-minded", so I dared to ask if she spoke greek, and she said she would for a nice tip. She asked me to set up a time, so I did for the next day, which is this afternoon. All of this was through text messages. Then last night, I got an awful feeling that I was being set up for a sting, since it all went so easily. I think the greek agreement was what made me nervous.

My question is this: Is this something I should walk away from now? Is there anything I can do to see if this is legit before walking into a trap?

PS: I know I made a mistake asking for activities before a first meet, and I won't from now on. A horny devil on my shoulder made me slip up.

[Guest032112]

Research, Research, Research.

Check reviews and do everything you can to verify.

A couple of questions I would ask deal with the source of the ad for "open minded"?

Does she have reviews on this site?

Did she ask for references? That's tough if its your first time.

Some of the other NWA horndogs can help you verify some of the ladies in the area. There are several top notch providers in that part of the state that will curl your toes, but they play safe.

She may be fine, but personally, I'd want a little input from others and a bit more research.

Have Fun, Play Safe and as Mr. Giz says, "go git sum"

[Lily Blair]

The story is a bit confusing--did you actually speak with the lady?? I'd be worried about a lady who didn't want to actually speak with you on the phone before meeting.

[Sydney Pure]

I will second that Lily...But for some odd reason ALOT of men try to text ONLY in Nwa ...Oh no way am I about to do that one either!!

[IIIII]

PM me her name/number/ad and i'll see if i can help to verify if she is legit.

[Lateralus]

Thanks for the input. I couldn't find a review on her, and I checked the 11ish pages of local provider reviews here. I put her phone number into google and it just turned up the ad I saw last week. I never did speak to her: on my original call I left a message (my name, number, saw the ad, was interested) and got a text back saying she was available after 7, which was too late for me that day. We tried, by text, to work around it, but couldn't. Then a week later, out of the blue came the "hey" text... I had to look the number up since I didn't save it from before. I replied, "heya " and was asked if I was too busy to see her, running a special at a named hotel, to which I said, "Can't tonight." Then yesterday morning, out of curiosity, texted back and asked what the special was (GFE, reasonable price) asked if tomorrow was ok (it was) then asked about the greek (no problem with tip, she'd be ready, what time would you like?) then set a time. I was a little worried about: 1) surprise text, 2) price, location, and GFE texted to a stranger, and 3) an agreement for greek with a stranger, which was, at best, a YMMV thing I thought, if it was allowed at all. She's a cutie in her pics, so it is tempting, but I'm too new to see clues others would see. I think I'm going to beg off, with thanks, and wonder what could have been, lol. Better safe than in stripes.

Aslo wanted to thank Lily and Sydney for their input especially, though all replies are nice. I had a chance to see Syd while she was here in NWA, but I made my attempt too late for her screening. Syd you were very nice for trying and I hope to see you sometime. And Lily... my favorite avatar pic belongs to you. You're a heart-melter!

[Mr.Chan]

Old saying from ancient Troy. "Beware of gifts bearing Greek"

[Lily Blair]

Next stop: NWA!!

But yeah, don't even think about seeing this lady. It sounds just all kindsa wrong.

[Lateralus]

Made the call, and she really answered the phone! I still cancelled the trip and offered to call her back sometime, at full price. I'll keep looking for reviews or warnings on her. If she was legit, I cost myself a good roll-around, but I'll take the veterans' advice about researching and bewaring "gifts bearing greek" (Nice job, Mr. Chan!) I got caught using 90% johnson and 10% brain there, instead of where I'm comfortable, 80% johnson and 20% brain. Still, the board here has proven it's worth a hundred-fold if you guys kept me from a cell or a scam, so kudos to all!

[Caligula]

I've visited a number of the NWA providers, so PM me with her details, and perhaps I can offer an opinion.

Two points: 1) Even if she was legit, it could still be a sting. If she saved your details, the police could have her contacting everyone on her list. 2) NEVER discuss terms by text. It's tidy evidence if there is a sting.

You probably made the right call, but I'm curious who this is, for my own safety.

[willro]

Originally Posted by Lateralus

I'm comfortable, 80% johnson and 20% brain.

By even being in the hobby we're all on at least an 80/20 johnson to brain ratio I would say. Thinking with mine has been getting me in trouble since I was about age 13. It's the male curse.

[Lateralus]

Originally Posted by Blond_Lily

Next stop: NWA!!

Haha! It's on! However, someday I should be able make a run south to your room of wonder. I need to get some references built up so that I can see the high-class ladies like yourself. It's like I have to make my way through the minor leagues to play ball with the all-stars (^.^)

Besides the advice on this board, a few friendly people PM'd me and answered my PM's on this subject. Thanks for the help and tips, everyone!