Not trying to get into a pissing match but Holly I see you do BBBJ. That could be considered unsafe. Passing judgement is not ok IMHo.
BBL I strongly disagree with the assertion that SS providers engage in BBfs. Is it possible yes but that is if you want it to happen.
WALDT ftr I have done SS with a select few providers and BBFS never happenned
Holly I am with PMDelites not sure why this was asked via email but consider his advice.
Whether you engage is SS or not to each his or her own I respect that either way. If your thinking about offering it research, research, research, and quite frankly be selective. SOme guys will take advantage and say oops