Safety?

[ILoveThailand]

I have been in this “hobby” on and off for the past 7 or so years. Have followed this forum during this time but never contributed to the forum so I guess I’ll be criticized for that. Whatever - it’s cool. I am currently in a committed relationship with a beautiful Thai lady and don’t need, nor do I want or desire to go back to the hobby, at least not for now, but I certainly don’t judge those people that do engage in it, as I have certainly enjoyed the companionship of these ladies for quite a while, and many are spectacular…both as providers and as human beings. I think a lot of guys forget these ladies are human beings and not a piece of meat. But i digress. Many would call me crazy, and perhaps they are right, and only time will tell. Both physically and from an experiential standpoint in the past I have loved these encounters. No strings attached meetings with whatever happens, happens. So, to that end, this forum continues to engage me - hence this very first post. Consensual acts between consensual adults have never bothered me. I have no problem with that whatsoever. Financial and physical needs being met. What has struck me the most is the change in the providers willingness to engage in BBFS. When I first started this hobby CFS was pretty much the standard - you got it unless you pressed for something different and even then the request was not always honored. At least that is what I gather from reading old reviews. I always wanted and preferred CFS. For everyone’s protection. Now, the reverse seems to be true - BBFS (Catholic) and all of the things that go with it are becoming more the norm apparently and providers may get a negative review because they did not go “Catholic”. I wonder why. Sure, it feels better. It feels like more a “PSE” to many guys. But at what cost to the provider and the customer? Super drug resistant bugs flying around these days. Why take the chance? And knowing I am doing DATY on a girl where a half an hour earlier a guy just shot his load is disturbing and gross to me. But that’s just me. i am sure I’ll be flamed, blasted, whatever you want to do, but I really don’t understand this new mindset; at least to me it’s a new mindset. Safety no longer seems to prevail, and I’m curious why so many take the risks.

[Heartside]

Just concentrate on you and your beautiful thai lady..ok!!

[NewAtThis1]

I'm with you ILT. I have seen my share of escorts but have not ventured into AMPland exactly for the reasons you mentioned, especially DATY which I really enjoy. I am looking for a good Protestant girl who at least claims to always use protection. If there is such a girl, no one seems to write about them. Can anyone recommend such a Protestant lady, especially a slender Asian MILF?

[Bingo Long]

There are plenty of CFS ladies in AMP Land, they just don’t get as many reviews. Having dabbled on both sides of the CFS/BBFS fence, one of my current CFS favorites is Honey at POA. I’m not young, so either gets the job done for me.

[shooter6.5]

and the service is not new.

It is just more openly advertised. And it is all about money. Since you have been around a long time I am surprised you find this something "new". It is not. Just the advertisement is, and of course the pictures.

Enjoy yourself if you have a lady who you really enjoy. Do not worry about the others. Nothing you can do about it anyway,

[jkc7594]

I totally agree with IloveThialand.
Suddenly most of AMP has been changed to Catholic.

[onlyAMPs4menow]

PARAGRAPHS ARE YOUR FUCKING FRIENDS!!!!!!!!!!!

[DunnJackNoff]

I appreciate this thread because I have wondered the same thing. I have been in the hobby for about 15 years. I took a few years off because I had a rw gf who did everything a provider would do but “no cover required”. It was really great to be able to feel everything without a layer of something synthetic between us - not to mention the spontaneity aspect. Before we got together it was unheard of for a provider to go BBFS. I did go BB with a couple of providers who seemed to really like me. I admit, I worried for months afterward.. “what was I thinking? That was stupid”. Fortunately, I never caught anything. Even with civvies, if you go uncovered, you don’t know who they have been with (no matter what lies they tell you) or who their other partners have been with. I would personally never go BB with a provider who I know is “catholic”. There is always a risk- true, but to me it’s like playing Russian roulette with 5 bullets in the chamber.
I know when your dick is hard, all reasonable thoughts seem to go away. I may go there in a moment of uncomfortable passion but the guys looking for it confuse me. To each his own but as good as it is, it ain’t worth dying for. IMO

[billw1032]

I'll throw in my $0.02 here as well. I'm surprised to see this thread get this far, with at least four members expressing an interest in safe practices, without getting totally mobbed and shouted down by the Catholic crowd. From time to time someone has mentioned the subject and that's what generally has happened, so thanks to the guys who have spoken up and if there are any more of us out there I hope they will chime in.

I've been an SC guy for many years and for the past year or two have followed this forum closely because I'm interested in taking the plunge into the AMP world. But, the Catholic wave that has taken over just strikes me as too much risk. Yeah, we sometimes get comments to "just cover up and don't worry about it", but some of us would prefer to know that a lady routinely engages in safe practices. Yes, I know we can never be 100% sure and "every one does BB with someone", but it reduces the risk if she's safe at least as far as everyone knows.

Once in a while a lady appears who is known as Protestant. Usually that doesn't last too long, and then one of the guys here will crow about how he convinced her to convert and the rest of the crowd will jump in and cheer about how they're glad she's now Catholic. That seems to have happened recently with one of the ladies at a spa on HH.

One Board Member who isn't on this thread yet has been trying to diplomatically push for sharing information on ladies who, to the best of our knowledge, prefer "safe" practices, but so far there doesn't seem to have been enough interest to keep the information flow going. It seems it will take more guys who prefer safe practices to band together to keep it going in the face of the current Catholic wave. As for me, if and when I jump in I'll happily contribute back to the community, but as for now I'm probably going to wait for more solid info before jumping in.

[DescentBuddy]

Those customers who are doing or interested in BB must be having H** diseases. Also the girls at the same time must be having H** or other STDs and not worried for BB.

So guys who are clean so far based on their knowledge should not be engaged in BB and please go covered. Few moments can ruin the whole.

[Mental AtrraXXXion]

If you really think about it, ALL women are doing BBFS with somebody out there be it in relationships, swinging, multiple partners, one night stands, hook up apps, sugar babies, etc and in relationships cheating on partners is so prevalent these days. It's one of the main reasons for divorce. I bet most don't use condoms when cheating. There's not only risk in the hobby but also in the real world. Who can say that they use a condom EVERY SINGLE TIME during sex? I'm not talking about just the hobby but anytime with whoever. Not many if any.

I just hope the Ladies and Gents get tested regularly, even if it's anonymously and take themselves out of the equation if they receive less than desirable results. Don't be selfish and only think about yourselves!!!

[billw1032]

Originally Posted by Mental AtrraXXXion

If you really think about it, ALL women are doing BBFS with somebody out there be it in relationships, swinging, multiple partners, one night stands, hook up apps, sugar babies, etc and in relationships cheating on partners is so prevalent these days. It's one of the main reasons for divorce. I bet most don't use condoms when cheating. There's not only risk in the hobby but also in the real world. Who can say that they use a condom EVERY SINGLE TIME during sex? I'm not talking about just the hobby but anytime with whoever. Not many if any.

That was exactly the point I tried to make. "Everyone is doing BBFS with someone" is often used as an excuse as to why it doesn't matter. But "someone, somewhere" is much different than "everyone, all day long when its your job". It's a statistics issue, and the latter carries a MUCH higher risk. There is value in knowing a lady uses "safe" practices in her professional activity even if she does otherwise at home with her boyfriend or SO or occasional non-professional encounter.

[Jayhawk328]

The main issue I have is when I see an AMP girl get a negative review because she did not go catholic. I understand going catholic may be the norm now, but I think it's BS to give her a "NO" recommendation and to shit talk her for that reason.



I'm not saying that I see these types of reviews all the time, but a girl should never get docked points for not wanting to go catholic (and yes, even if she works at Blue, haha).

[yoconejorabbit]

365 days per year, 90,000 planes take off everyday, and 99.99% make it safe every year to their destination.


Similar amount of rides on this hobby with similar risk, yet I will not stop flying because someone committed with a flight attendant.

[Chung Tran]

Originally Posted by Jayhawk328

The main issue I have is when I see an AMP girl get a negative review because she did not go catholic. I understand going catholic may be the norm now, but I think it's BS to give her a "NO" recommendation and to shit talk her for that reason.

I don't see that. there was one lady at Blue for whom I talked a little smack, but that's because she wanted an up charge for Catholic, I declined, and beginning the very next day, at a new spa, she apparently dropped that stance, according to intel and reviews posted. of course I didn't know when I saw her, that she would drop the policy, and I gave her a "yes" with CFS. I have seen plenty of CFS ladies, and recommended them. I don't think Religion should be weaponized, though, LOL

Originally Posted by billw1032

I'll throw in my $0.02 here as well. I'm surprised to see this thread get this far, with at least four members expressing an interest in safe practices, without getting totally mobbed and shouted down by the Catholic crowd.

I don't see that either. it happened when a well-known Troll attacked Catholicism once or twice, but otherwise never. doesn't make any sense.. why would anyone care if you choose CFS? why would someone mob or shout down someone for that?



I'll give you a hot tip if you want CFS.. Nagoya.. they have always had a majority CFS.. same with the erstwhile #1 Spa.. but you guys didn't write reviews on them.. we barely learned their names, and frankly I thought when their names were posted (along with the dreaded CBJ acronym), that further dampened their business. seems like the only reviews we ever saw were "I walked in to Nagoya, and they assigned (insert CBJ Latina here) to me, I'll never visit there again!". want another hot tip? House studio, they insist on CFS.