Judgeholden Bareback

[Lillygirl]

Judgeholden pmed me about an appt and we continued to texting. He asked me if my fetishes included bareback and then asked for a right now pic. The pics on my profile have been taken within the last week. He said because in the pic I sent him I look bigger than in my profile pictures I needed to drop my donation and refused to wear a condom. So we canceled the appt and I blocked his number. Do not let this man treat you like you are stupid or a newbie.

[biomed1]

Does not meet the criteria of an Alert.

Moved to Co-Ed Discussions.

[Sweet Casey]

Ugh what a loser. Sorry he thought he had the right to treat you that way. Thanks for the warning dear

[riders1175]

I am not trying to be a dick but if you call yourself a "cum dumpster", you might appeal to someone like this. The guy seems to be an asshole.

[ACharmXo]

Originally Posted by riders1175

I am not trying to be a dick but if you call yourself a "cum dumpster", you might appeal to someone like this. The guy seems to be an asshole.

*sips tea*

[Lolahhhhh]

Riders, sometimes you just need to not post. Your opinion isn't needed. And frankly, no one cares. Commenting rude shit on a hooker board shows how low you are.
ACharmXo, don't be like that. How about you try building the women up? I just wanna see the women working together and not being so hateful. Too much to ask in the hobby I think.
Lilly I'm sorry that this man has been rude to you. You can be a slut and STILL deserve respect!

[SylvieLining]

Originally Posted by Lolahhhhh

Riders, sometimes you just need to not post. Your opinion isn't needed. And frankly, no one cares. Commenting rude shit on a hooker board shows how low you are.
ACharmXo, don't be like that. How about you try building the women up? I just wanna see the women working together and not being so hateful. Too much to ask in the hobby I think.
Lilly I'm sorry that this man has been rude to you. You can be a slut and STILL deserve respect!

I agree. The general conscientious here should be that, no matter what you playfully call yourself, you are entitled to just as much respect as any one of us.

Not to mention, porn has used buzz terms like "cum dumpster" as a sexy thing for a long time, so of course some of us would use this to widen our demographic and appeal to more potential clients ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[inquisitivone]

Originally Posted by SylvieLining

I agree. The general conscientious(consensus) here should be that, no matter what you playfully call yourself, you are entitled to just as much respect as any one of us.

Not to mention, porn has used buzz terms like "cum dumpster" as a sexy thing for a long time, so of course some of us would use this to widen our demographic and appeal to more potential clients ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I think spellcheck sucks! Although you are correct that whatever verbage the ladies use in their ad's they should always expect to be treated with respect!!!!!

[SylvieLining]

Originally Posted by inquisitivone

I think spellcheck sucks! Although you are correct that whatever verbage the ladies use in their ad's they should always expect to be treated with respect!!!!!

Ah, damn Google Chrome! double posted for me earlier too LOL

[ACharmXo]

Originally Posted by Lolahhhhh

Riders, sometimes you just need to not post. Your opinion isn't needed. And frankly, no one cares. Commenting rude shit on a hooker board shows how low you are.
ACharmXo, don't be like that. How about you try building the women up? I just wanna see the women working together and not being so hateful. Too much to ask in the hobby I think.
Lilly I'm sorry that this man has been rude to you. You can be a slut and STILL deserve respect!

Sweetheart you have to have respect for yourself FIRST in order to get it back. If you refer to yourself as a slut or a cum dumpster that's your business. (More upscale clientele for me lol) But don't put yourself out there like that then cry about how no one will respect you. What self respecting upscale man would want to spend time with a CUM DUMSTER?? Your game goofy.
But here's some free smoke:
It's not what you do, it's how you do it. Be a woman FIRST and a provider 2nd.
You see it as liberating but everyone else sees it as low self image. You want respect you better demand it. Not in your words but in the way you carry yourself.

Xo

[Lolahhhhh]

Originally Posted by ACharmXo

Sweetheart you have to have respect for yourself FIRST in order to get it back. If you refer to yourself as a slut or a cum dumpster that's your business. (More upscale clientele for me lol) But don't put yourself out there like that then cry about how no one will respect you. What self respecting upscale man would want to spend time with a CUM DUMSTER?? Your game goofy.
But here's some free smoke:
It's not what you do, it's how you do it. Be a woman FIRST and a provider 2nd.
You see it as liberating but everyone else sees it as low self image. You want respect you better demand it. Not in your words but in the way you carry yourself.

Xo

Don't let the hobby ruin you anymore than it already has.

[slobthanob]

Cum dumpster lives matter!!! I have respect for lilly and i love the dirty talk. Keep it coming!!

[BobSmoot]

Originally Posted by ACharmXo

Sweetheart you have to have respect for yourself FIRST in order to get it back. If you refer to yourself as a slut or a cum dumpster that's your business. (More upscale clientele for me lol) But don't put yourself out there like that then cry about how no one will respect you. What self respecting upscale man would want to spend time with a CUM DUMSTER?? Your game goofy.
But here's some free smoke:
It's not what you do, it's how you do it. Be a woman FIRST and a provider 2nd.
You see it as liberating but everyone else sees it as low self image. You want respect you better demand it. Not in your words but in the way you carry yourself.

Xo

Lol, you supposedly judge yourself by the amount of clientele you get and you are picking a fight with probably central Arkansas most popular provider. Your 8 reviews are so cute!!! Didn’t I see you misspelling words and using pimplike emoji’s on your ad’s on backpage. Someone needs to put something in your mouth to keep it closed.

And to stay in topic.

Lily, that’s good info thanks for sharing

[Ginger Doll]

I'm definitely not trying to be hateful here, but it's reasonable to expect that you will attract what you project...

To me, the term "cum dumpster" implies that guys can dump their cum directly in you. That wouldn't be possible if a condom were in place. That's just the way that I interpreted it.

Lily, we have chatted before and I think you are genuinely a nice girl. I would maybe be more aware of your ad phrasing and how others will perceive it, because it's likely that you're attracting the wrong type of guys with your wording. Jmo.

[BobSmoot]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

I'm definitely not trying to be hateful here, but it's reasonable to expect that you will attract what you project...

To me, the term "cum dumpster" implies that guys can dump their cum directly in you. That wouldn't be possible if a condom were in place. That's just the way that I interpreted it.

Lily, we have chatted before and I think you are genuinely a nice girl. I would maybe be more aware of your ad phrasing and how others will perceive it, because it's likely that you're attracting the wrong type of guys with your wording. Jmo.

This might be a valid point. I hadn’t thought of it that way.

Gold star for Ginger she’s one Smart hooker