I know texting is the "in" thing and has it's advantages. But it also has plenty of disadvantages.
Wouldn't it make sense to text in response to a text, pm in response to a pm, or call in response to a call (if told it is an option in a voice message)?
Some of us don't do this enough to justify a hobby phone, don't want a text trail (even an erased one), and quiet often are driving (best place to be alone) when calling to contact a lady here.
But still, time, after time, I call, leave a voicemail (granted not a great thing to do, but nothing incriminating spoken), and get an almost immediate text. If now isn't a good time to get back then wait, (or listen to the voicemail which almost always says, "send a PM").
Thank you for your attention and your patience.
Best Regards,
IAL