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10-01-2014, 01:58 PM
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Have we forgotten ?
I've noticed lately that a lot of people are making posts about falling for and dating on this site and it really seems as though a lot of people have forgotten what this site is about. This is an Escort Client Community Information Exchange site NOT eharmony ! I think some people confuse the girlfriend experience with an actual girlfriend. Don't get me wrong, I've met some wonderful women her LOTS more than I've done reviews on but I know what it is and what I'm here for. I love the fact that when I'm done we are done and I leave my emotions in the condom to get flushed down the toilet, because no matter how good it feels to be with a provider, once I cum I come to my senses. There is nothing wrong with picking up a " friend " here and there but to go at these situations and fall in love . . . . . . Nah !
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10-01-2014, 02:29 PM
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Lol agreed.
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10-01-2014, 03:36 PM
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Domestic is not part of the description in the hobby world
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10-01-2014, 05:03 PM
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Join Date: May 27, 2014
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The odds are very high that it would/should happen at least on occasion.
Going into the hobby with the idea of finding a girlfriend/boyfriend is unwise, but should people just ignore their feelings if it does happen?
Underneath all the playfulness of the hobby all of us are still just people and every once in a while a happenstance appointment could turn into a real relationship.
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10-01-2014, 08:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Gucci
I've noticed lately that a lot of people are making posts about falling for and dating on this site and it really seems as though a lot of people have forgotten what this site is about. This is an Escort Client Community Information Exchange site NOT eharmony ! I think some people confuse the girlfriend experience with an actual girlfriend. Don't get me wrong, I've met some wonderful women her LOTS more than I've done reviews on but I know what it is and what I'm here for. I love the fact that when I'm done we are done and I leave my emotions in the condom to get flushed down the toilet, because no matter how good it feels to be with a provider, once I cum I come to my senses. There is nothing wrong with picking up a " friend " here and there but to go at these situations and fall in love . . . . . . Nah !
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Very good point.
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Originally Posted by DangedDragon
The odds are very high that it would/should happen at least on occasion.
Going into the hobby with the idea of finding a girlfriend/boyfriend is unwise, but should people just ignore their feelings if it does happen?
Underneath all the playfulness of the hobby all of us are still just people and every once in a while a happenstance appointment could turn into a real relationship.
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Also a very good point.
Any donation I decide to give a girl. Is not for their time, nor anything else that may or may not happen. It is soley for the purpose of their leaving.
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10-01-2014, 08:09 PM
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Originally Posted by DangedDragon
The odds are very high that it would/should happen at least on occasion.
Going into the hobby with the idea of finding a girlfriend/boyfriend is unwise, but should people just ignore their feelings if it does happen?
Underneath all the playfulness of the hobby all of us are still just people and every once in a while a happenstance appointment could turn into a real relationship.
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And I got my heart broken after 3 visits and meeting him for dinner to "talk" and next thing I know he's moving in, so NO I won't date clients, but I don't want to end up an old maid either; I've never tried eharmony; and cl is just another "free" bp
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10-01-2014, 08:11 PM
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Very good point.
Also a very good point.
Any donation I decide to give a girl. Is not for their time, nor anything else that may or may not happen. It is soley for the purpose of their leaving.
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had a guy tell me this once and wasn't being rude; I don't pay you for sex, I pay you to go away/leave, lol
It wasn't mean or rude, it was funny and I have thought of it ever since
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10-01-2014, 08:21 PM
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Any donation I decide to give a girl. Is not for their time, nor anything else that may or may not happen. It is soley for the purpose of their leaving.
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Since a good portion of the men I see never want me to leave, I would have to say they pay for my time.
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10-01-2014, 08:22 PM
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LOL
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10-01-2014, 08:57 PM
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Since a good portion of the men I see never want me to leave, I would have to say they pay for my time.
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Somehow I can see that.....
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10-01-2014, 10:18 PM
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Join Date: Feb 11, 2011
Location: Louisville, Kentucky
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I currently have 2 hobby 'girlfriends'...
And I also get a little 'strange' on the side from time to time. Do I think my hobby gf's are real? No. Would I even be open to such a relationship? Doubtful. But I've never had a provider express an interest in such.
I think there are some guys out there who fall for the illusion. It's not the lady's fault in most instances. She is just doing her job.
Having said the above, I do consider my favored hobby ladies to be true friends. Why? I know they are not 'needy'. Neither would ever ask for anything from me beyond my date requests. I think they both know I would be there for them if asked because I would KNOW some bad shit was going down if they had to ask me for help! They just don't roll like that.
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10-01-2014, 11:48 PM
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If you have been in the hobby awhile and have an ATF or two and see these same girls over and over, eventually, feelings will develop. It is how you deal with the feelings. I know for me that dating a provider will never happen given my life situation. However, life situations change and under the right circumstances, I'm sure something could happen. Again, it all comes down to how one deals with these situations.
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10-02-2014, 08:03 AM
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Any donation I decide to give a girl. Is not for their time, nor anything else that may or may not happen. It is soley for the purpose of their leaving.
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So, you're cool with cash and dash?
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10-02-2014, 08:07 AM
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To the OP, keep in mind that this site is full of rule-breakers. So, let's call it a rule (even though it may be a guideline or just good advice); it's almost guaranteed folks here will break it.
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10-02-2014, 08:19 AM
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So, you're cool with cash and dash?
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Sure, right after my time has expired.
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