Personal attacks - maybe we CAN do without them?

[TheBisexualPhilogynist]

Originally Posted by blthzr666

How so? My statement was taken way out of context.

I wasn't even directing that comment towards all that. I'm just saying...

[Guest030516]

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[newd]

Oh shit...now my WK tendancies are being pulled to WK for a guy who is being accused of WK-ing......muuuuuuuussssttttt maintaaaaaaaaaaaaiiiiiiin controoooooooooooooooooolllll.



I don't know about all the details, smoking or not, drinking or alcoholic or whatever....but it certainly seemed the short "negative" post was insulting, bashing, and with purpose other than just to "inform."

I personally also do NOT like when ANY woman on this site gets hit with one of those "obliterate" posts. If the goal is to inform, plenty have shown how to provide negative feedback in an informing, and not "shaming" way.

- Peace and Love, peace and love.

[Guest030516]

Originally Posted by newd

Oh shit...now my WK tendancies are being pulled to WK for a guy who is being accused of WK-ing......muuuuuuuussssttttt maintaaaaaaaaaaaaiiiiiiin controoooooooooooooooooolllll.



I don't know about all the details, smoking or not, drinking or alcoholic or whatever....but it certainly seemed the short "negative" post was insulting, bashing, and with purpose other than just to "inform."

I personally also do NOT like when ANY woman on this site gets hit with one of those "obliterate" posts. If the goal is to inform, plenty have shown how to provide negative feedback in an informing, and not "shaming" way.

- Peace and Love, peace and love.

Thank you. Very well said.

[misterbig9.5]

Originally Posted by rodeomann22

idk is it, Benfica69J can you help us please, I really don't want to go looking for it

But I don't think he did!!!!!!

[Guest031416-1]

Originally Posted by elghund

Once a provider and a client get into a relationship, and it goes bad, it should be brought out. I think it is valuable info to be able to decide whether to see a provider or not.

This would not be the first time that this kind of situation has been brought out, and from both sides.

As far as personal attacks, that is a two way street. Just as many providers attack innocent clients, as the other way around. One of the issues people have with WK's is that they refuse to see that simple fact.

Mr. Blthzr666 better remove his blinders, because the wheel will turn, and he soon might find himself thrown under the bus by the very provider he WK's.....

And, speaking out if both sides of his mouth, he sure descended into a personal attack.......


elg......

yeah I agree, and I guess im a little biased in all this as I am privy to both sides of this situation, but if the roles were reversed, I don't see myself getting into a spat with a provider or bashing one here, in the big realm of things its not worth it at all, and both only end up getting hurt in the end

as far as her bashing him one day, who know, one can only hope that if their client/john relationship ends for whatever reason, they remain adult about it and just go their separate ways

[Guest030516]

Originally Posted by misterbig9.5

But I don't think he did!!!!!!

Funny shit big!

[Guest031416-1]

Originally Posted by misterbig9.5

But I don't think he did!!!!!!

don't think he did what, F and L?

yeah me nether, at least not for a while anyway

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by elghund

Once a provider and a client get into a relationship, and it goes bad, it should be brought out. I think it is valuable info to be able to decide whether to see a provider or not.

This would not be the first time that this kind of situation has been brought out, and from both sides.

As far as personal attacks, that is a two way street. Just as many providers attack innocent clients, as the other way around. One of the issues people have with WK's is that they refuse to see that simple fact.

Mr. Blthzr666 better remove his blinders, because the wheel will turn, and he soon might find himself thrown under the bus by the very provider he WK's.....

And, speaking out if both sides of his mouth, he sure descended into a personal attack.......


elg......

but I don't think he is buying my way of saying some of the same ether.
but i did get

You make me laugh sometimes osd. The last post was very entertaining.
In a good way.

awesome

[Guest030516]

Are you actually saying I've been misunderstood osd? Because it wouldn't be the 1st time. My communication skills can suck now and then!

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by rodeomann22

Honestly what does her smoking status have anything to do with this? She smokes, maybe more than she should, but who am I to judge, it's her life!

it was part of the post said to be bashing her. that I asked to be quoted and was.
I went after each bit of it that was quoted
And that as I stated she can keep smoking
and get someone to post in review non-smoker
why go after the bashing if you go for something easy and make non issue but still smoking.if she wants

[Guest031416-1]

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

it was part of the post said to be bashing her.
I went after each bit of it
And that as I stated she can keep smoking
and get someone to post in review non-smoker
why go after the bashing if you go for something easy and make non issue but still smoking.

I think was more upset that he called her fat than the smoking part, idl though, 666, care to chime in on this one?

But I understand your side osd as well, just think the entire post in general was NOT needed, but hey, too late for that now isn't it, and has def sparked a nice debate about bashing

[Guest030516]

Originally Posted by rodeomann22

I think was more upset that he called her fat than the smoking part, idl though, 666, care to chime in on this one?

But I understand your side osd as well, just think the entire post in general was NOT needed, but hey, too late for that now isn't it, and has def sparked a nice debate about bashing

"Fat" was my issue. It's no better than calling someone stupid or ugly, it's demeaning. She states she smokes, so you know it before hand anyway.

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by blthzr666

Are you actually saying I've been misunderstood osd? Because it wouldn't be the 1st time. My communication skills can suck now and then!

nope not at all
I think you will keep WK'ing overly in my view if not your as you have stated "will keep defending" sorry to lazy to quote. dang text from a gal I use to play at same time as posting is killing me lol
elg... nor I will change that no matter how we say it.

but will try again
forget the bashing its mostly harmless most of the time

[Guest030516]

osd, when it's harmless, or done in jest, I don't have any problem with it. But sometimes it's too obvious that it's being done to be mean or vindictive. I can usually get the difference.