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So in OKlahoma ladies are allowed to post. Probably the same here. Interesting concept. So would the ladies here do something like that?
Apparently not based on the lack of response
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Originally Posted by hughhefner
....Certainly, trust issues are present for safety sake, but there is a great tendency to error on the side of the provider, understandable if you are one. If you're on the other side of the query, then all you get is knowledge of who you won't be seeing, important if not disappointing in its own right. However, there are those ladies who know how to handle such situations with grace, though fatigue and anxiety can get the best of any of us. I'm afraid there's no talk or banter at the cabin these days.  ..... |
So the cabin is still there?
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Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh
...Honestly, I don't see the point of guys posting threads asking who is interested in seeing them. That is why we run ads after all. So it stands to reason that any lady who is running ads, has reviews, etc, would be happy to see you. If connecting with a lady is as difficult as some men make it out to be, well, perhaps you are calling the wrong ladies.....
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Valid point, but some ladies don't do ads or specific ads. Many on both sides are unsure of extended phone conversation and that is to be understood as Stacy stated below.
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...Any woman who answers explicit questions is clueless and begging to be arrested at some point. Further, it makes you sound like LE. For my part, even if you aren't LE, I still don't want to see a man who asks those questions. Eventually you are going to talk yourself right into a pair of handcuffs, and I don't want you having already seen me when that happens. That is what reviews are supposed to be for - to answer those questions before you contact a lady, and save you from having to incriminate yourself or her.
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Assuming the clients have full access to the review comments, this might be good. Ladies comments and PMs could be helpful for those with limited access also. Yes, there is risk with phone calls and ad, here and other places like BP as well. Risk is part of the hobby still at this point? But keeping that level low is important for everyone!
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Guys, keep it simple. You are overthinking this. Check reviews, contact well reviewed ladies with reputations for punctuality and professionalism, and you will save yourself alot of headaches.
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Well stated and highly accurate,
but not always easy for a horndog to do and COG has NOTHING TO DO WITH THAT FACT!
SOMEONE SUGGESTED CHAT....and a private area for KC folks to use? I checked ECCIE chat and that does not exist.
I do not see any extension for
private group membership here either. A moderator my know of some options.
Some hobby sites have private groups in them, with
limitied membership which could be helpful but still not everyone could get in.
Yahoo Groups might be an option, private groups could be used with required/closed membership.
And if there was a
large enough group interested a small KC/KS/MO discussion PHP site could be opened without too much difficult
IF IT WAS GOING TO BE USE? Would this group actually use something like that?
Anyway, since the idea is now out of the box (or closet), there's someone out there who probably has such a desire. For those with such different strokes, here's a starter:
