Well, if you read my comments above, you’ll know that it’s not “just you.“
I’ve also experienced bedtime pleasures with guys when we’ve tried some prostate play, it hasn’t been his thing, and we just go in a different direction.
Also, yes there of been guys have just gone soft and they’ve not regained any reaction as result. Happens infrequently, mainly because of my particular client base, but is completely normal within the range of what is normal.
Others can and will chime in, but I’m not blowing any wind up your skirt!
Hugs,
Elisabeth