Topic about "CLOCK WATCHING"...everyone plz chime in (ladies & gent's)

[Wakeup]

You're getting "bashed" because your actions are completely contradictory...you started this thread by saying that you care about guys going over their time and not paying for it, and then you tell them not to pay for the extra time when they go over it...

Perfect whore logic...and yeah...you're going to get called out on it. You said you started this thread to get responses from us...next time you'll be more careful what you ask for...

[SofaKingFun]

Originally Posted by whatever222

I find the independent girls with the higher rates are less clock watchers. I see a provider who charges $800/hr for outcall but appt usually ends up being between 3-4 hours with no request for compensation.

Some providers are so annoying when they start talking after the session, I remind them the hour is up and time for them to go.


For incalls, I leave after the agreed time. Seems like the courteous thing to do.

Uhhh....dude, you're just the type of client the OP is talking about. That's certainly the way it reads from this end.

If it's an incall, you leave after your time is up because "it's the courteous thing to do".

And if a gal gets chatty on an outcall, you "remind them that the hour is up"

Where's the courtesy with the $800/hr gal that you're sponging the extra 2 or 3 hours from?

Does she get the same reminder as the chatty gals do?

Because she makes no mention of compensation, which she is certainly due, it's somehow okay with you?

You might want to get that shit in-check or you're liable to be the subject of an $800/hr gal's thread regarding the very topic that Cindi Lyn Is trying to address, or worse.

Ijs..

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[chicagoboy]

I'm guessing whatever's $800/hr hooktard is really a $200/hr gal who likes four-hour gigs, but wants to be able to keep all the money if she has to leave early because the trick puts the "funck" in major malfuncktion.

[WolfWhistle]

Originally Posted by Cyndi Lyn

I have more control when its an incall. As I normally have my iPhone set up in my music box with soft music and there is a clock visible. As I don't mind going over a tad, but an hour is a bit much.

But when its an outcall, you don't always have control over if there are no clocks around to glance once and a while to make sure you don't go over board. If am entertaining at my place...I'm in control. If at an outcall....it should be mainly on them. That's my thoughts anyways. Some of you may disagree. But I'm not like everyone else. I'm much nicer.

As for setting a timer on my iPhone. I honestly would feel that is being rude.

My main reason for posting such thread was to in general get responses from Ladies and Gent's in our they would approach if same/similar issue happen to them.

Not to be bashed for posting a stupid thread. Hmmm...I wonder if I can count all the worthless threads that may of been started by some others?

Houston is like a safe haven for low brow humor or crass behavior so one has to be very careful in posting a sincere question. Hate Town is alive and well!

[WolfWhistle]

Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

Uhhh....dude, you're just the type of client the OP is talking about. That's certainly the way it reads from this end.

If it's an incall, you leave after your time is up because "it's the courteous thing to do".

And if a gal gets chatty on an outcall, you "remind them that the hour is up"

Where's the courtesy with the $800/hr gal that you're sponging the extra 2 or 3 hours from?

Does she get the same reminder as the chatty gals do?

Because she makes no mention of compensation, which she is certainly due, it's somehow okay with you?

You might want to get that shit in-check or you're liable to be the subject of an $800/hr gal's thread regarding the very topic that Cindi Lyn Is trying to address, or worse.

Ijs..

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LOL, $800 per hour will always squeeze you a few more minutes with the girl in mind.

[1ThickBlond]

Originally Posted by Cyndi Lyn

But I'm not like everyone else. I'm much nicer.

This is exactly what leads to being taken advantage of in many cases. You can be as nice as you want to but you still have to be in charge and set clear boundaries from the very beginning. If you get too personal, give too much and make them feel too special some of them will get confused and the lines between reality and fantasy get blurred. Then when you say or do something to bring them back to reality feelings do get hurt when they realize they aren't as special as you led them to believe they were.

[boardman]

Originally Posted by D.G.

D.G.?

[Lexieinhouston]

^^^ Interesting, lol


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[FoxyNC]

"Honey, I'm having a really good time with us talking and all.... But you only booked for an hour. We're 15 minutes into our time, do you want to use your hour for conversation or....?"

No need to be a bitch, however, being nice, or overly nice, can be a problem.

Hookers aren't known for being nice, and I am sure there's a reason for that.

[StinkyFingers]

Originally Posted by FoxyNC

"Honey, I'm having a really good time with us talking and all.... But you only booked for an hour. We're 15 minutes into our time, do you want to use your hour for conversation or....?"

No need to be a bitch, however, being nice, or overly nice, can be a problem.

Hookers aren't known for being nice, and I am sure there's a reason for that.

He's gotten used to there being no set time limit so he now expects it. Probably thinks that since he's a regular client and you let him go over time in the past that he is now entitled to it and is a bit peeved that you're tightening up on it. Next appt. politely excuse yourself and leave at the end of the allotted time.

[FoxyNC]

Yup, an old wise hooker told me once, "Always have something to do after the allotted time they paid for is finished."
Even if you DON'T.

[Luvs2Purrr]

I thank those who ACTUALLY gave great comments.
All others need to get a grip and WAKEUP!!
Stick you guys back up inside your mothers vagina and start all over again. MUAH!

[Wakeup]

Now now...no need to get upset sweetie...you posted it, you own it...

Next time, realize you don't get just the responses you want...you also get the responses you need...

[bigbadbill969]

Originally Posted by 1ThickBlond

This is exactly what leads to being taken advantage of in many cases. You can be as nice as you want to but you still have to be in charge and set clear boundaries from the very beginning. If you get too personal, give too much and make them feel too special some of them will get confused and the lines between reality and fantasy get blurred. Then when you say or do something to bring them back to reality feelings do get hurt when they realize they aren't as special as you led them to believe they were.

You are so correct. My first regular provider would sometimes not charge me and she would tell me how money was not everything. I thought WTF.....this chic must really be into me. I thought "what hooker would reject my money unless she really did care"......Oh how wrong I was. I persued a real relationship to find it was all BS. Maybe at some level she had some real feelings but she never wanted me as anything more than a special client.

[D.G.]

Your first mistake was giving him two hours to begin with at the one hour rate. Even if it was an accident. Immediately inform the loser the next time it will be two hours rate if it happens again. See who becomes the clock watcher then.