Toyz,
I'm sorry to hear about you worst experiences. That is why it would make sense for a legit girl to advertise there. Many backpage memebers become regulars or p411/eccie members b/c of me and other like myself. If I were smart/selfish I wouldn't even mention review boards; but they always come back to mama anyway
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Toyz I won't explain my screening methods b/c other girls not advertising on BP is a plus for me, but know my screening is zip tight.
Often times I see guys that are complaining about girls on BP ripping them off. But half the time there are some
BIG RED FLAGS that are plain as day. Or they are a member here and there is already an alert on the girl.
Guys here are some ways to avoid BP drama.
- 1st and foremost search here.
- Search the girls phone # on backpage and google and see what comes up. Usually if another girl has the same # they are usually under management.
- At the end of an ad, there is an option for the advertiser to display how long they have been a member of BP. This might help discern a legit girl from an ever changing scammer.
- If they tell you to come over without some kind of screening that is a dead give away.
- If you see bruises and unusual markings on the girls arm blatantly displayed in the pic or in person; stay away (it amazes me some of the alerts I see in which the girl blatantly has issues). Although you can find this with some of the popular ladies that advertise here and some of you have already seen girls like that. But hey, at least they didn't rip you off right. So who cares!
- If something just doesn't sound/feel right. Leave it alone. Guys often think with their little head.
I always want to ask the guys that post an alert: did you get a feeling something wasn't right? Most people do, they just fail to listen to it. Although, I had a very smart respected provider here once tell me she doesn't believe in intuition, or at least she had never felt any warnings of danger. I really didn't understand this. I though everyone had spidy-senses. Well even if one doesn't have spidy-senses, there is usually some sign or red flag displayed by a person who has ill intent. Something they say. Their tone of voice. It's amazing how some well-to-do people who have degrees in communication, law, healthcare, have little common sense when it come to human behavior. Stop being so gullible and think with the head that controls the whole body and not with the one who doesn't give a fuck about you.
Your big head will tell you:
Yo me! Don't do it. You have quite a bit to lose messing with these scalawags.
Your lil' head will tell you:
Listen here bitch, If this hoochie has her pimp knock you to oblivion at least I have helped you creampie enough times to produce another dumb-ass just like you so who needs you anyway.
That's what your dick said; not me.
