ladies any thoughts here......

[BigDeal]

Women's Sex Fantasies

Found this poll here and wanted to get our ladies thoughts

by Men's Health

So you wanna get kinky, eh? We put out a survey on Cosmopolitan.com, asking the ladies if they'd be game for putting a little variety into their sex lives. Here's what they told us...
Would she ever be up for...
Light bondage (having her hands restrained, being blindfolded, and/or being spanked)
Yes: 68% If handcuffs are too awkward, use a pair of her pantyhose...
No: 7%
Exhibitionism (sex or being exposed in public)
Yes: 11%
No: 29%
Videotaping sex
Yes: 29%
No: 33% She doesn't want to end up on nakedchics.com...
Sex toys during sex
Yes: 50% Something new to play with!
No: 13% There's only one toy she needs. And you're already wearing it.
Role-playing
Yes: 41%
No: 17%
Which of the following have you ever tried?
57% Light Bondage
30% Exhibitionism
15% Videotaping
33% Sex Toys
23% Role Playing
31% None of the Above
How did the situation come about?
21% It started as a joke, but later it intensified
17% He just initiated during sex without talking about it
16% She initiated a conversation prior to having sex
How would you have liked it to come about?
27% He just initiated during sex without talking about it.
24% He initiated a conversation prior to having sex.
2% We were drunk and I'm not really sure how it happened.
What did you think about your experience?
67% It was erotic and something we continue to do.
21% It's something best saved for special occasions.
7% It was fun as a onetime thing.
3% It was just a goof.
2% It was awkward and unpleasant.
"A woman has a more erotic mind than a man," says sexologist Robert Birch, Ph.D. "A man is more likely to say, ‘Yeah, I want to have sex, let's get into it.' A woman is more likely to say, ‘Yeah, I want to talk dirty.' Women are more into the theater, the romance, and the drama surrounding sex, rather than just the act

[The DarkSide]

Usually percentages add up to 100%. Exhibitionists 11%said Yes and 29% said No. Does that mean 60% are voting for Mitt Romney?

[guest010313]

Oy vanilla sex lol.

I went to a NYE party given by a friend of a guy my sister works with. It was a weird little JoCo haven in west plaza. None of those people have ever fucked with the lights on.

I can't even imagine a life in which that list up there is considered bananas.

Here's to the sex positive world we are building one deviant act at a time!

[bigryan222]

From that list I have been on video tape, fucked in the back area of a bar a couple times, had sex on a security camera in a bar (I did 100% know that the recording device for it was broken so it was only displaying on the monitor) and on rare occasions am in the mood for light bondage.

I have never understood role playing. I stopped being able to pretend when I hit junior high. Im not knocking it by any means, but my mind just quit working that way. For bondage, I think the reason Im not into it most of the time is because Im a fairly big guy and probably more arrogant about thinking that everyone around me is not a threat. I may be wrong, but I always figured bondage was about control or at least the perception of control and I am too big and definitely to dumb to think anything other then that I am in control all the time. Its not like Im built like Lou Ferrigno, but in my mind I am.

[ElumEno]

Originally Posted by SillyGirl

Here's to the sex positive world we are building one deviant act at a time!

Cheers to that!

[guest010313]

Originally Posted by bigryan222

From that list I have been on video tape, fucked in the back area of a bar a couple times, had sex on a security camera in a bar (I did 100% know that the recording device for it was broken so it was only displaying on the monitor) and on rare occasions am in the mood for light bondage.

I have never understood role playing. I stopped being able to pretend when I hit junior high. Im not knocking it by any means, but my mind just quit working that way. For bondage, I think the reason Im not into it most of the time is because Im a fairly big guy and probably more arrogant about thinking that everyone around me is not a threat. I may be wrong, but I always figured bondage was about control or at least the perception of control and I am too big and definitely to dumb to think anything other then that I am in control all the time. Its not like Im built like Lou Ferrigno, but in my mind I am.

Lol we should try some power games

[simplman69]

The best is the bottom result with 2/3 basically enjoying. Don't knock it till you try it.

[ezgoindude]

Originally Posted by SillyGirl

Oy vanilla sex lol.

I went to a NYE party given by a friend of a guy my sister works with. It was a weird little JoCo haven in west plaza. None of those people have ever fucked with the lights on.

I can't even imagine a life in which that list up there is considered bananas.

Here's to the sex positive world we are building one deviant act at a time!

Right on SG... Just my experience dating in the real world over the last year. Ho hum. Describes it.

[ezgoindude]

Originally Posted by bigryan222

From that list I have been on video tape, fucked in the back area of a bar a couple times, had sex on a security camera in a bar (I did 100% know that the recording device for it was broken so it was only displaying on the monitor) and on rare occasions am in the mood for light bondage.

I have never understood role playing. I stopped being able to pretend when I hit junior high. Im not knocking it by any means, but my mind just quit working that way. For bondage, I think the reason Im not into it most of the time is because Im a fairly big guy and probably more arrogant about thinking that everyone around me is not a threat. I may be wrong, but I always figured bondage was about control or at least the perception of control and I am too big and definitely to dumb to think anything other then that I am in control all the time. Its not like Im built like Lou Ferrigno, but in my mind I am.

Movie, "Instinct" Anthony Hopkins to Cuba Gooding Jr., "What have you lost. What have I taken from you..."

Cuba Gooding Jr. in sleeper hold, gagged scrolls on a piece of paper, "My illusion of control." Clip from Instinct

[KCQuestor]

Originally Posted by The DarkSide

Usually percentages add up to 100%. Exhibitionists 11%said Yes and 29% said No. Does that mean 60% are voting for Mitt Romney?

I'm guessing 60% said "Maybe", which really should be taken into account when analyzing a survey like this. "Maybe" can become "Yes" really easily with the application of some alcohol or the right partner asking. I have no interest in watersports, but if Scarlett Johansson asked...

And I totally agree with Lilianna on this one. If these things are what the folks at Men's Health and Cosmo considered "unusual variety", I don't want to know what their sex lives are like. What kind of person says "No" to the question "Would you ever consider Role Playing?" or "Would you ever consider using Sex Toys?"

[FireSerpent]

Originally Posted by SillyGirl

Oy vanilla sex lol.

I went to a NYE party given by a friend of a guy my sister works with. It was a weird little JoCo haven in west plaza. None of those people have ever fucked with the lights on.

I can't even imagine a life in which that list up there is considered bananas.

Here's to the sex positive world we are building one deviant act at a time!

I have to agree with you there.

I have a friend of mine who used to poke fun at me by saying, "Tank, I don't think you can get an erection without flashing lights." I said, "Nah, but I'm sure your wife could help me out in that area without much problem."

I wonder where they got that list from anyway? People are so sexually tame these days.

[Muffrider]

Originally Posted by bigryan222

I think the reason Im not into it most of the time is because Im a fairly big guy and probably more arrogant about thinking that everyone around me is not a threat. I may be wrong, but I always figured bondage was about control or at least the perception of control and I am too big and definitely to dumb to think anything other then that I am in control all the time. Its not like Im built like Lou Ferrigno, but in my mind I am.

Hey BigR: I'll give you $50 if you can keep from peeing ur pants after a 110# girl lights you up with a stun gun. LOL. J/K (I don't have $50).

[Muffrider]

I believe that many women have it within them to be freaks, but they're repressed.

If they know that it's "safe" for them to let themselves become truly uninhibited with you (a matter of trust), AND you show them by your reactions that they have the power to sexually provoke your basest, male instincts, they'll let go.