sexual relations in th rw vs the hobby

[topsgt38801]

Since the fire has gone out at home, rw sex is out the door. I do enjoy the hobby sex, but I also do the hobbying for the companionship and conversation. If the chemistry flows with the provider, hobbying sex and companionship can be really great.

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[Sensia]

Originally Posted by Katharine Butler

It's a lot more about Me when I'm off the clock. ... with a rw lover I can suggest something risqué or a little freaky w.out wondering if it will end up in a review when maybe I just feel a little open minded tonight. I can be more selfish, I want this, now this, now 10 seconds of this and right Now 20 min of this....and then maybe they get theirs, lol. I can also say, how bout I do you then you do me then we throw in a movie and cuddle. Selfish, you know.

I second that..lol

a rw lover is less stressful, and it is all about being yourself and kicking back without any expectations. If I don't feel like doing x,y,z it is all ok with a rw lover and you don't have to worry about attitude or hang ups.

[Randall Creed]

Real world sex. Pros: no clock to worry about and therefore, less pressure. Chances are pretty good you'll get to spend the night and part of the next morning....or even past noon if neither of you are in a hurry to get up or get rid of the other. This allows for chances at MSOG. If you get to spend the night, that saves you from having to drive after sex, which to me has gotten quite annoying. Driving afterwards really evaporates the afterglow for me. Financially, the expenses are typically minimal. Maybe you bought her a drink or two, and the following morning you may feel like going out for breakfast before departing. It could turn into more than one encounter, which is fine as long as the rules are set in place and are carried out. Home privacy, typically. No worrying about cops, pimps, bait and switches, etc.

Cons: It could turn into a situation where one side may develop feelings, and if the other side isn't looking for it, the other person could become a nuisance. Calling/texting too much, threatening to 'send dey cousin after you' (you know, that crazy cousin that everyone has). Civvie girls can get 'needy'. "Pay this bill for me" or "Do this for me" or "that" or something else financially related. I don't mind this, but within reason.

With frequent encounters it's easy to get laxed, and go bare, which could lead to pregnancy. Now it turns into a relationship, even if it's just financial. Eventually, it could get worse, or better.

There tends to be a rather limited menu. Not all civvies give head or even kiss. Lol. I know some that won't kiss but will gobble a dick up like it's candy.

Could be a baby daddy somewhere, who never broke up with her, and might be a problem.

Hobby sex. Pros: Variety of hot girls, of all ages. You can see girls MILES out of your league. Nothing beats a super hottie with a near perfect body that you couldn't get the time of day from otherwise bobbing up and down on your wood, or bent over showing a heart shaped spread and letting you plow her, or kissing her.

Minimal odds of any attachment growing. You both know the deal and it keeps things in check.

Cons: There's that 'cover charge' you gotta fork over. Yeah, we pay it. We know the deal, but if we walked in and they said, "This one's on the house", we'll jump through the roof (in our mind) and go through the session with a mental shit eating grin.

If it doesn't go well, you're still out of the fee. Now you're horny and out of money. Kinda like going to a SC.

Bait&switch/cash&dash/pimp/flaky service. See above.

[ralph lauren]

Rambro... I think u nailed it, I date women in real life an thats how it go.. I hobby for the no strings attached aspect of it.. Im still rather young not ready to settle down yet..

[JONBALLS]

Originally Posted by LynnT

There is nothing like hot passionate sex with someone you are truly into. Sure you can have hot sex with a "friend" but its not the same when your diggin' someone with your all.

yup, that psychological connection and the familiarity of knowing that persons body and flow.Also all thos pent up emotions, especially coming off a fight. Spontaneity, it isnt planned days in advance, may just happen when you lift her skirt and bend her over wereever you may be if the mood a rises...

[elgato111]

RW sex is somewhat less stressful in the beginning. But as time goes on the familiarity that both have with each other sometimes leads to boring sex.

In the Hobby World you never know what to expect the first time. As you spend more time with the provider you get to know what she likes/dislikes and the same for her. And then sometimes after a long period of seeing her it may become boring if there is no imagination on the part of either one.

[pyramider]

Hobby sex is cheaper, as in less expensive, and I do not have to call her the next day.

[npita]

Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

This is both for the ladies and gentlemen...To you how does sex with a real world person compare to the hobby world? Both pros and cons?

Real world sex, even a one night stand, beats hobby sex hands down. I'm not sure why it should be like that, but I stopped hobbying and went back to the real world because hobby sex just didn't live up to what I thought it could be. What hobby sex has in its favor is that it's easy to obtain with no relationship hassles. The primary con is that the sex is just not that good. I don't think I really understand why it should have to be that way, but apparently it is. If the sex had been more like real sex, I probably would not have gone back to the real world. (I also wouldn't have met my fiancee, but I wasn't planning for that to happen when I went back to dating. It just turned out to be a nice surprise.)

[hobbyprojb]

I love Hobby World Sex! I love the feeling of having any beautiful woman I want with no effort & charisma.

Yes..I'm a Lazy Man Whore!

[Valerie]

Well I generally love all sex ...but certainly do enjoy it a bit more outside the biz when I take a lover....