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Originally Posted by woodbandit
I think it would be nice if a provider would at least acknowledge your calls or texts. simple yes ,no , I'm too busy today or hey I think your (leo) or a jerk, maybe both......but to just get ghosted is not right. shouldn't give them another call....
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If their independent and don't get back to you for a few hours or even 6hrs... I can understand. I want her phone off during my time with her... and if shes booked a few clients close together... I get not answering phone a few hours...
I really like those who don't get back to me until 6 or 7 hours later... finding one that actually got some sleep lol.
Seriously though... if they don't answer right away sometimes it's a courtesy by the provider not to return your message late. Most times that they do not follow up right away, they get a return message that's not so pleasant from us " well thanks anyway I lost my window to cheat on my spouse" or if someone doesn't use a text app and the wife intercepts the message... either way they are avoiding negativity. We have created this ghosting response as a whole.
I've talked to many that just tell me to keep trying...within reason so they know I'm still interested. If I get nothing over a few attempts at different times of day... then I give up. She's either blocked me for being annoying or busy enough with regulars not to need me.
If I'm a regular... I usually am in sync with their life habits and I don't have issues scheduling anyway. Even if it's someone I see regularly and I get a spontaneous urge to see her at moments notice and she doesn't answer me right away... I understand totally. It's nice when that kinda aligns but life is messy.
Just a different perspective to understand why it feels like customer service is lacking lol.
Stay safe gentlemen.