I know of a NCNS, but what is it when the lady does this?

[hunter4925]

I know what a NCNS is thanks to several years in the hobby, but what is it called when the lady stops communicating after dates and times are set?

Been seeing this particular lady in question for years and while she is perpetually late in starting our visits on time, I've grown use to the tardiness and plan around it, yes she is worth it.

This trip however, communication was great right up to the communication of the location destination in town. Now I sit here 1.5 hours past our scheduled time and have not heard from her since 3pm this afternoon confirming we were still on.

I know time is money, but does this not work both ways, provider and client?

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

NCNS can absolutely go both ways. That’s why I like the routine of several ladies who will communicate with you at least the day of, if not an hour or so before, to confirm before I make the trek to her location. Much appreciated, ladies!!

Sorry to hear, hunter, especially with one you are familiar with. Give her some time to get back with you on what happened... could be a valid reason for which she will request your forgiveness. Good luck...

[seductrix4u]

I would call this "managing down your expectations" so that you learn to accept this behavior from her. Such as consistent tardiness. Yet you allow it.

She seems to have done her job well because you have adjusted your behavior to accommodate her inconsistencies.

Unfortunately, some companions seem to take advantage of a good client once they have a established a solid relationship because they think they have him "hooked."

If you have seen her for years, really like her, and intend to keep seeing her, then understand that these warts come with her. As they do with all companions (and clients) in some form or fashion.

But if you find that your relationship has ended, there are plenty of reliable, lovely ladies in KC that you can "get under to get over" her.

[KatiforYou]

Ask her about it the next time you see her.

It wont hurt to say hey your my fav lady but... she will either change her behavior or it may be time to move on.

[Fsn57]

Originally Posted by hunter4925

I know what a NCNS is thanks to several years in the hobby, but what is it called when the lady stops communicating after dates and times are set?

Been seeing this particular lady in question for years and while she is perpetually late in starting our visits on time, I've grown use to the tardiness and plan around it, yes she is worth it.

This trip however, communication was great right up to the communication of the location destination in town. Now I sit here 1.5 hours past our scheduled time and have not heard from her since 3pm this afternoon confirming we were still on.

I know time is money, but does this not work both ways, provider and client?

You've been NCNS'd. Just move on to the next. There's plenty more options out there so you never have to let her NCNS you again. Maybe post her name so others can avoid such providers in the future.